[marymt]

Hi my cousin is looking for his son in Mt. Vernon WA, his name is Chad Suomela, he graduated in 2002. His parents would not allow him to talk to his dad when young but he is now an adult 21, still in Mt. Vernon. I found his name in the Skagitt Valley Herald and he took a class in Facilities Maintenancein 2004, he was on the High Scool wrestling team at Mt Vernon High Graduating in 2002. His dad would love to see him and misses him. His dad James Laughlin lives in Madras Oregon, he was forced.... ran out of money in the fight, to give him up for adoption at age 5 because of the birth mothers new marriage.. her husband wanted an end to the visitation with my cousin Chads father. Any ideas on how to contact this individual? The parents I don't think will tell him if you call the parents home, my cousin says they are good people and love Chad but do not want Chad or the Mom in my cousins life. He also needs also to know he is in my Cousins will and also his grandmother is dying Donna Laughlin Thanks Mary Tyler

[linda_mc_us]

If I Were You I Would Locate And Tell Him That His Dad Would Love To See Him And About His Grandmother Is Very Ill. He Can Make His Choice, He Can Also Choose To Tell His A-parents Or Not. If I Wanted To See My Birth Parents And I Knew It Would Upset My A- Parents I Would See The B- Parents And Not Tell The A- Parents. Why Upset Them If You So Not Have To.