[jaye41887]

Well I think I am now truely ready to search. I have always known the name of my bmom. I did a search online and found addresses in my state of ohio. If that doesn't work I will expand my search.

Now that I have these adresses what now? Do I just begin sending letters describing the situation? Or do I send a letter thats short and sweet like:

April 18th 1987?
Baby girl?
ISO BMOM could it be you?

I'm not sure where to go from here.

[bakerjw]

I'd try to narrow down the number of people to the most likely candidates. There are some really good fee based search sites out there. consumersguides.net looks at some of them.

[teacher22]

I went to Melissa Data | Data Quality Tools | Mailing Software | Lists | NCOA and paid something like 4 to find out BS possible address. I have since written a letter to both him and his amom and I am awaiting a reply. Good luck!

[sunnygal]

GOOD luck!!

[sarahblnks]

Hello.
My website is VERY helpful!!
sarahsearchangel.webs.com

I do searches for free and I have alot of contacts and searches, i would be glad to help you!!

Please go to my website and email me and i would be glad to get you started and on the right track!!
I recently just found someones birth mother in NC!!

I do international also!!

Please email me!!

[sarahblnks]

Please email me at

sarahsearchangel.webs.com

I do free searches and I can search internationally as well!!!

[yourniece]

Hi, come join this group, they can help you find your birth family.
theregistry : Adoptee search & birth family search net

Hope to see you there!
michelle