[Bachmas]

We are narrowing down our agency search to FTIA. But I was concerned about experiences in-country. Did you feel a need for an interpreter for sight-seeing or were you comfortable going about un-escorted If you used them and are home, could you please e-mail me with your experiences.

Thank you,
Sue Bachman
AP-China/PAP-VN

[soontobethree]

Depending on the age of your child, you may want to go early and do the sight seeing prior to the handing over. Our first son was six weeks old when we got him and we were frowned at by the locals when we took him out of our hotel. We were told that they believe that both Mom and baby should stay indooors for the first three months of the baby's life.

When we went to adopt our second son, he was 5 months old and we did not get quite as bad looks from the locals when we took him out. As far as needing an interpreter, I think it would be more meaningful to have an interpreter but that also may constrain your time.

Melanie

[Bachmas]

Melanie,

Thank you for the words of wisdom. I will try to remember them when we get to travel. We submitted our application and were accepted by FTIA. We are very excited to begin this adventure to our newest daughter. I can't wait to see VN and its people. We loved our experience in China. We did have run-ins with the clothing police, but we were prepared and kept Natalie will covered. Thanks again for responding.

[soontobethree]

Ah yes, the clothing police. When we left China, we were in the hotel lobby. Our daughter was sitting in the stroller and her pants leg had hiked up a bit, revealing 2 inches of her lower leg. Some people in the lobby mentioned it to our facilitator and he kindly gave me something to cover her legs. Even though we don't always agree, it does show that they love and care for their children.

Melanie