[kune]

Cat
I've been in your position. I know how difficult the decisions you have to make are.
I live in New Zealand and would love to support you while you work through your options. You can contact me - Either on these forums or by private e-mail.
I'm probably older than your own mother....but pretty worldly when it comes to situations like yours. This decision is yours to make -but you don't always have to do it alone. If you can't tell family then you need interaction with others who have walked the same path and come out the other side.

Regards - Ann

[mama2-8]

I have never experienced adoption from this side, as I am the adoptive mother to 7 children. What a huge burden to bare alone. You need support. I would urge you to tell your family. You have a lot of options, but you are the only one who can make that choice, so think about before you make a choice so that you don't regret it later. Hang in there, its not the end of the world although im sure it may feel like it now. I believe God creates life, and he has a purpose for this child, weather its with you or another family. May God bless you and guide you. I will be praying for you.
The Journey