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Originally Posted By mandi

hi my name is mandi im 15 and i am 2 months pregnant i cant figure out how to tell my mom b/c me and my boyfriend (the father) have only been together for 2 months and hes 18 and i just told my mom about him today and she was soooo mad so how can i tell her im pregnant im really really scared can someone please help me cuz i really need help!!please reply or email me at bit2bit16@cs.com thanx
mandi

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My experience was that my parents were more supportive than I thought they would be. You should tell hersoon, because prenatal care is important. Your mom may be really upset at first but hopefully will calm down and be helpful.

[babygirl_2002]

15 is a little to young but it happen it happen but any ways
I think you should say Mom don't be mad at me because I'm going to tell you something and then just tell her that you are pregnant .

hope aeverything goes just ok for you and your mom
I have not told my parents that I was yet either and I am 20 and my boyfriend is 21 and we are engaged to get married hopefully the baby is born Iam in the 12 week and I know how you feel
Good luck in the future and have a good day
bye

[hvyhart]

Mandi
Although telling your mother will be very hard for you and equally as hard for her, you must tell her soon. Be prepared for her pain and anger as she loves you and you will be changing her dreams. Be gentle be patient and she will be there for you after the shock and pain has lifted. My daughter went through her entire pregnancy without letting us know. She claims she also did not know...she had never had a period. The shock of losing my teenage daughter one morning was a pain I do not want for anyone else. Please tell your mother so she has time to adjust and help you make informed decisions about your future. Give her the chance..to help. Give her the time to adjust. Let her know you love her and need her during this unfortunate time.
Good Luck to you and your family...
Take care of yourself

[Kristi]

My mom always told me that if it ever happened to me that it is a life and not a death. Just keep that in mind. It will be OK. Life is something to celebrate, it will be hard at first, but your mom loves you and will be there for you even if it is hard. You will be fine, but it is important to tell her now. It will be easier now then it will be later. She knows what pregnancy is like and she'll probably be able to help you. I hope everything works out as well as it can. Just remember, it's a life not a death.
-Kristi

[A_mothers_love]

When I was fourteen I found out I was pregnant, I was so frightened that I told no one, not even the father of my baby. When I was seven months my mother found out, but by that time it was to late to make the right decision, now fourteen years later I finally found my son, the one I was pregnant with at fourteen. I lost him to adoption because I didnt tell my mother, and I will live to regret losing him for the rest of my life, if I can give you any advice it is to tell your parents. Sometimes you think that they will not understand, but they will be able to help you make the right decision. A baby is not going to go away, your pregnancy will continue, I am postitive you would rather go through your pregnancy with the support of your family. Becoming pregnant is not a bad thing, you are not a bad person for having sex. Life works in mysterious ways. If you have a hard time finding the words leave her a letter. Do not ever feel that you are bad for becoming pregnant. It is human nature to love, with love sometimes comes sex. this is not wrong. I am sure you are a wonderful young woman. Your mother will understand.
Hugs
Melissa

[martinipuppy]

hey mandi,

I know excatly how you feel.. I'm somewhat in the same position..

I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 18.. I'm worried i might be pregnant and I am scared out of my mind. I was wondering if you would be able to e-mail me and tell me how u handled and figured out how u were pregnant.. My parents have no idea i am with him and we have been going out for over 2 years... and i think we really ****ed up this time.. idc anyone e-mail me or reply to my post..
Your gonna get though this!!

[lin2458]

I KNOW THE FEELING WHEN I WAS 16 I GOT PREGNATE AND NEVER TOLD ANYONE THAT I WAS KNOW ONE FOUND OUT UNTIL THE DAY I WENT INTO LABOR AND EVEN TILL THIS DAY NOT TO MANY PEOPLE KNOW MY BROTHER FOUND OUT ABOUT IT WHEN HIS FIRST SON WAS BORN AND THE DOC ASKED MY SISTER IN LAW WOW YOUR BACK AGAIN AND IT WAS ME THEY WERE TALKING ABOUT PLEASE TELL SOME ONE I LIVE EVERYDAY IN PAIN WONDERING WHERE MY LITTLE GIRL IS AND WISHING I HAD HER HERE WITH ME IN THEM DAYS YOU DIDN'T HAVE BABIES AT 16 WELL NEEDLESS TO SAY MY MOTHER MADE ME GIVE HER AWAY TO ADOPTION SO AS YOU WOULD THINK I LOST A DAUGHTER AND A MOTHER I DIDN'T WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH MY MOM AFTER SHE MADE ME GIVE HER AWAY AND TILL TODAY I CANNOT HAVE ANY KIDS SO I LOST THE ONE AND ONLY CHILD I COULD EVER HAVE SO ALL IAM SAYING IS DO THE RIGHT THING AND TELL SOMEONE...............

[AphroditesMuse]

It will be hard to tell her, no matter what. Maybe something that might help ease the situation is showing her you're mature about the situation, and have most of the answers to her questions figured out already. It might make her feel a bit better knowing that she's not going to carry you through this big situation. That you know what you're going to do and that if she want to help it would be fantastic. I hope this helps!

[Twin Sis]

Mandi, what happened to your baby? I am wondering how you handled it. It might help other teen pregnant girls. I hope that you made the right decisions, and please share with us...