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Originally Posted By Ashley

I am terrifed. To tell my parents and everything. please give me som advice. E-mail me at bubbles_37_63@yahoo.com

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Originally Posted By nat

look i am not going to tell u not to worry u'r parents will be ok about it because i wouid be lying,but i am telling u that u have already made a big mistake in ur life and u will just have to deal with it.and that is by unfortunatley to tell ur parents the mistake u have done because they will have to find out some time.my advice to u is although i love babys,i advice u not to keep it because u r only thirteen,and if u do keep it what will u be able to do with ur life being 13 years of age and looking after a baby.u will not be able to live a teenagers life because u will be a mother.u will not be able to go out with ur mates.whenu u r around 16,17ex u will not be able to go to clubs because it will be expensive to find a baby sitter.

[sasharedmond]

First and foremost you need to find out if you are, then you need to tell your parent's. Do not try to hide it or get rid of the baby on your own. Then you will have to decide what is best for you and the baby. There are a lot of people who would adopt the baby if that is what you decide. My neice just had a baby, she is now 14 she was 13 when she got pregnant. If you need to talk to someone about it I could give you her e-mail. I wouldn't under any circumstances try to take care of this on your own talk to your parent's or another adult that you trust, (maybe an aunt or grandmother).

[Duane]

Ashley, I tried to e-mail you, but it would not go through. I would like to talk to you. You can e-mail me at Budsftheart@shtc.net. Get in touch with me through e-mail, please. Hang in there.
Duane

[KellyStacy]

I read your post and you really need to talk to your parents.I can only imagine how terrified you are but things have a way of working out.First please try and find out if you are truely pregnant then go from there.Please do not try and hide this from anyone.If you feel too terrified to go to your parents you need to let someone know.Do you have an adult family member you can confide in? Since you are only 13 this is something you cannot possibly handle on your own.You will feel a lot better if you have someone with you.Don't ever feel like there is nobody who can help you just by posting on this board there a so many people who care and will be willing to help.Did you tell anyone you might be pregnant? Did you tell the biological dad? If you need someone to listen or a friend you can pm me.God Bless

[numbr1dbcksfan]

LOL this is from 2001 guys!!!

[St.Ives]

that being the case, i think it would be a good idea if the moderators edited the post and removed the child's email address, for safety reasons.

[katzoo]

Nat!

How old are you? You sound like you're 13 also. You don't have to be so harsh.