[cherrylyps1972]

I just found out my 15 year old daughter is sexually active 5 days ago, this is only because she confided in my sister in-law that she was scared because she had not started her period. Well she started but she has been puking every morning for the last 3 days. i do not know how to approach her with my fear should i wait or get her tested right away?

[hopefulinTexas]

Oh goodness Tamee....

Maybe you could buy a pregnancy test and leave it in her room for her... maybe with a note on it says, "let me know when you are ready to talk, I LOVE YOU.... "
that way you aren't confronting her about it but she still knows you know.

good luck!
amy

[mj77]

I think Amy had a great idea. I am sure it has to be a scary thing to face mom with. I think if she knows you are there for her regardless, it will be easier for her to open up. It doesn't mean you don't have the right to feel hurt for her or concerned.

[Mary Anne Y]

Hello
I was 16 when I had my first son.... Take a deep breath
do you and your daughter have a close relship what I meen by that can you two talk with out you geting up set and filying off the handle? this is hard for both for you andyour daughter I can only say this be couse I have been their she dont want to hurt you and she knows it is wrong but at 15 you feel all diff things so please keep this in mind. you can say to her I know you are dateting and I know you have all diff feeling about sex ( she will most likey say I dont or why are u asking me this) you dont want her to think she cant talk to your sisinlaw so you dont want to brake that trust may be you can give the test to your sister in law for her to help her with the test if it comes back No then wait a few days and bring up the dating and sex topic and ask her if she would like to go on birth control not that you are saying it is ok for her to have sex but if she is she will most likely keep doing..... Ok big question if she is you need to let her know you are thir for her and you will help her make the rigt choice just keep breathing and good luck

[numbr1dbcksfan]

Wow Amy-
Great call! I hope everything works out!!