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Originally Posted By mandy_2

hi my names mandy im 15 and i was fooling around with this kid and he was black and now im pregnant i told him and he says that he'll be there if i need him but the trouble is my parents told me that i could never be with a black person and if they find they'll throw me out how can i tell them with out getting in trouble?? please help

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Originally Posted By 2 mandy

Tell them it's not fair how they're prejudice against blacks and they have to deal with their future grandchild being half black. If they won't accept your kid, they don't accept you, and do what you can to take care of yourself (without your parents help unless they're willing).

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Originally Posted By Chrissy

I bet you are very scared. I know my parents were the same way about african-american's. It is sad. You know, I read the other replies to your message and the person who told you to go to a friend's house and call them, was good advice. Other good advice is to go to your guidance counselor. They will be able to help you with this. If you are considering adoption for your baby, The Gladney Center offers birthmoms free counseling, medical help, educational help and they have a place you can stay during your pregnancy! They are in Fort Worth, TX! They are very caring, warm people and they will help you find the 'perfect' adoptive family and if you need to, they can arrange for family counseling with your mom and dad. Please email me privately if you want to talk further, or if you need a contact number for Gladney. My email is DustyCarly429@Yahoo.com! Okay? I hope that you get the help you need! Hope to talk to ya!
Chrissy

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Originally Posted By amy

Hi Mandy,
When i was 15 i started dating my sons father he is also black and i am white my parents were very mad becasue they had always told me that we cannot mix races (whatever thats supposed to mean every one I know has more than one nationality) but against my parents wishes i continued to date him at 17 just a month after we started having sex i became pregnant. my family didnt find out until i was 7 1/2 months and my mom told me he was going to be spotted (like a dalmation) my brother was embarrased and my dad was horrified my sisters on the other hand knew he would be adorable. he is now 3 years old my son is has a perfect "tan" green eyes brown hair with blond streaks and he is not spotted. My mother has 3 grand children he was the first (and my only) and my son is her favorite she will show up at my house to take him places and tell me dont tell your sister i dont want her to be angry damion is my favorite the same goes for my father and my 19 year olds brother is now a 3 year old that looks exactly like him only with a "tan". Your parents are going to be mad at first but eventually they will come around. My mom fell in love the second she saw him (he was about 30 min old) so it didnt take to long, it took my dad 6 months and my brother only took about a month to come around so he was happy before the baby even arrived. good luck all will work out trust me. oh by the way my son is not spotted like a puppy hes just tan.not black tan isnt that odd

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Originally Posted By Devon

Just come out and be honest. They will be mad at first but you've got to let them know before thay get surprised when the baby comes out a different color. Good Luck!!!!!!