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Old 08-28-2006, 05:38 AM
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Old 08-28-2006, 01:01 PM
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Thanx Robin,
You're a doll.
Sometime this year, we will try to connect with my husbands siblings in the UK.
At that time, do you mind if I lean on you a bit?
To connect with siblings ( I doubt they even know about my husband) is going to be a difficult process for us and we both want to be as delicate as possible, with the goal of at least meeting.
Is that wanting the impossible, do you think? meeting?
anyway, thanx for that input, again, Robin
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Old 08-28-2006, 01:21 PM
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Hi dmca

Do you have names for your husband's siblings? If not it's all a bit complicated.

Sorry does that seem a silly question? If they were also adopted you might not know their post adoptive names then obviously things are going to be dependent on the services of the adoption agency or an adoption support agency.

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Old 08-28-2006, 02:04 PM
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No names yet. It wasn't an adoption.
My husbands mother had my husband with a fellow that was not her husband.
It has taken 20 years to get to the bottom of all of this. To find out who was the father of my husband.
big mess. This whole mess started over 20 years ago, when it was revealed that my husbands father was not his birthfather.( on his 40th birthday)
Now we live in another country and wish to be delicate in case the siblings ( we have a suspicion they don't know about my husband) go into shock over it all.
terribly difficult situation.
any advice would be greatfully received.
All we have is a phone number, and if that is defunct, I suppose all we will have is the name of the birthfather and have to resort to looking for the siblings with the same last name in that area .
( close to Tunbridge Wells)
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Old 08-29-2006, 12:53 PM
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Umm...depends a lot on how uncommon the name is, but sounds like the finding might be the easiest bit.

http://192.com and http://www.b4usearch.com/

Those are the sites I use, if I need to do any birth, marriage and death research http://www.1837online.co.uk you need to buy credits on that and 192.com

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Old 08-29-2006, 01:16 PM
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thanx Robin,
you're a godsend.
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Old 08-31-2006, 03:42 AM
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A doll?....umm...perhaps I ought to mention that's Robin as in Robin Hood, Robin Williams, Robin Cook etc

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