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Old 09-16-2008, 11:50 AM
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White Priviledge

An amazing essay posted on the New Demographic site:

redroom.com/blog/tim-wise/this-your-nation-white-privilege

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Old 09-16-2008, 12:36 PM
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I love it!!!! And he is so dead on.

The thing that truly upset me the most about the Repub Convention (and which the writer alludes to) was the "villification" of the word "community organizer." Sorta like black people are supposed to sit back and shut up. Arrggghh!
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Whooo hoooo! I love it! Just forwarded it to most of my address book. I hope more people read it, he makes some great points, very clearly.
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That was great! Thank you for sharing!
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Sad But So, So True

Thanks for passing this one along. When you see racism first hand, this isn't at all shocking or surprising. But for those who live in a bubble and believe that we've come far in terms of equality of races in this wonderful country of ours, hopefully it might open some eyes, just a little.
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Excellent piece. So, so true.
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Haha.... don't even let me get started. Soooooooo much agree with him.
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Great Article. I'm sending it to everyone I know.
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We must also remember that as people of color, we should not harbor anger against white people. People of color should never make white people feel guilty for having white privilege, because everyone on this planet harbor some sort of previlege. Such as hetrosexual previlege, male privilege or simply being born in this country and not having a thick accent could also be a privilege.
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Excellent essay. I just sent it to all my friends. Thanks for the link.
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I thought that was a bogus article. On so many levels....According to those arguments, the only thing I could surmise that would match in junior high immaturity is that black privilege must = infanticide. And let's face it, that is exactly what he would have.

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Great essay on white privilege - thanks!
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Its it just me or is this link a little anti-republican? A mean, couldn't they give general examples of people throughout history - both democratic or a Republican as examples of white privilege?

Someone else please reply and tell me I'm not alone!
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FullQuiverMama, are you saying that the author or Barack Obama believes in infanticide? In either case, I think you are really off-base and absolutely wrong.... Protecting a woman's right to choose what to do with her own body has nothing to do with infanticide, IMO....
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I was surprised to find the article in the Transracial Adoption. Aren't most kids here half white?

My daughter is half white, and I found the article extremely offensive for her. I wish my daughter to be able to embrace her full self without being made to feel like she owes anyone 1/2 of anything for the color of her skin.
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