[jan76]

Well Jen; that is very unfortunate news. I am sorry but my prayers are with you that you come to know your other family. God Bless you!!! Keep me posted.

[JenMcHall]

Thanks Jan,
I'll keep you posted. Meanwhile, you keep me posted on your progress,too.

Jennie

[jan76]

I just received another letter from the state (Jan. 10) requesting money for copies of adoption records. It should not be too long now. Just wanted to keep you all posted. It seems like it has taken forever. But the state has responded rather quickly here in the last few months.

[JenMcHall]

Yes, it seems the state has either hired more people in this department or maybe the rush has died down some. I'm glad it is moving along quicker for you now.
Jennie

[jan76]

Well, what I have long awaited has finally become a reality. I received my paperwork from the state today. I feel like a piece of me has been completed. Now, it is time for the state to contact them and maybe there could be a reunion in store.
WOW, overwhelmed and shocked all at the same time. Will let you all know any further developments.

[JenMcHall]

CONGRATULATIONS!

That is great news, Jan! I know you will be reading those papers again and again for awhile just so it can sink in. Of course, there is more waiting now, but at least you have something to keep you occupied. I hope that you wrote down every possible person that you wanted contact with on your search application. I had accidentally left off my birth aunts and uncle, so I'm going through some extra red tape right now. Even though I've already made contact with my aunt, we can't let the state know it until her paperwork is done.
Just so you know, they will ask each person that they contact to send in $25 with their application for Contact Veto Registry which I was unaware of. I don't think that it is right for us to pay $135 and then ask our family members who may not even know about us to pay another $25 each. I feel that could potientially result in a negative response from a family member.

Happy reading....
Jennie

[rburress]

I'm trying to help a friend find find his sister's daughter that was born May 1962 in Nashville TN in the Florence Crittenton Home. She named her Lora Lee. His sister has passed away and he found a letter she had written to her daughter. He is wanting to find her so he can deliver the letter to her. Does anyone know any any way to get info from this place or how to go about this?

[ProudMommyof3]

I don't know if anyone is still reading this. I just wanted to put my experience on here. It did seem to take a while. We were waived of the fee. I think that if we can be waived of it, birth relatives should be as well. In my case though, I got pitifully little. I was born in 1984.. adoption finalized in 1986 through an agency. There was NOTHING in there about my foster parents, their names etc. There was no interviews or opinions or social workers notes about my biological mother or father prior to my birth. There was almost NOTHING written before I was adopted. I did receive those letters from the state with the seal that gave me access to agency records, hospital records etc. I did not even have the hospital records in the record. I am realizing this is not normal and just not sure if I was not sent everything. Do you all think it would be better if I went to Nashville to view them?
Is it normal for none of that stuff to be in there?
I contacted the agency to get those records. They said to contact an Adoption Unit in Johnson City and that they do not have anything and they send everything to Nashville upon my adoption. However, the state of tennessee TOLD me and suggested to contact the agency and present the letter to get additional records and information.
Does anyone have any suggestions or ideas?