[travsmom]

My husband has been in my son's life since he was six months old and my son is now five. The biological father last was scheduled to see my son when he was 14 months old but ended up in jail that day and has not called since to see him. It has now been four years and my husband wants to adopt my son and now of course the biological father says he wants to see him. I feel this is just a game and he could care less about my son and now because he will tell the judge he want a relationship he will most likely be given the opportunity. The sad part is that when my son was 2 yrs old he would drop his girlfriends daughter off at the same preschool as our son, in the same room, and never acknowledge him! We are scheduled to go to trial next week and I guess I wanted to come on here for a little encouragement possibly, the closer the day gets the more afraid I get!

[L-A-J-C-R-C]

Hi,

Some ppl just need to play games with other ppl's lives. I'm sorry you are going through this and will keep you in my prayers.

Michelle

[alvarez_leoatx]

Dont be scared and dont let him get to you. This is what he wants. Remember that old saying..men want what another man has. Your son's bio father just wants in because he is not wanted. A judge will do what is in the best interest of the child, not you, not your husband and not the bio dad, just your son. There number 1 goal is to NOT disrupt the child's life. You can use all that his bio father has done to him against him. I am so sorry that you have to go through this ordeal and for your son. I hope all works out and you will be in my prayers.