| Welcome to the Forums. | Register |
| If this is your first visit, be sure to check out the FAQ. You may have to register before you can post or search: click here to proceed. To start viewing messages, select a forum below that you would like to view or click View All of Todays Posts. | |
| Forum Categories |
|
![]() |
|
|
Thread Tools | Search this Thread | Display Modes |
|
#1
|
||||
|
||||
|
How long to wait
My husband and I recently adopted a beautiful 9 year old little girl. She has adjusted well and it seems like she has been our family forever. Of course there have been the ups and downs but we love her with all of our heart. We would like to add another child to our family but are not sure how long we should wait before we start actively searching again. It took over a year for our daughter to be placed with us, but I am aware it can happen faster than that. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
__________________
9/03 started adoption process 1/04 started parenting classes 2/15/04 finished parenting classes 3/9/04 completed homestudy 4/12/04 homestudy approved Currently waiting for a match 8/4/04 Selected for a 9 year old little girl. 8/26/04 Went for a visit waiting for her to come home. Our daughter is finally home!!! |
|
#2
|
||||
|
||||
|
Some agencies make you wait a year. While I'd probably say 2 years, I never waited that long in between. It's such a personal decision. It will affect your daughter and she may regress some when the new child moves in. It's really a family decision. Good luck and I hope you find another child that blends well with your family.
|
![]() |
«
Previous Thread
|
Next Thread
»
| Currently Active Users Viewing This Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests) | |
| Thread Tools | Search this Thread |
| Display Modes | |
|
|
All times are GMT -7. The time now is 07:18 PM.


My husband and I recently adopted a beautiful 9 year old little girl. She has adjusted well and it seems like she has been our family forever. Of course there have been the ups and downs but we love her with all of our heart. We would like to add another child to our family but are not sure how long we should wait before we start actively searching again. It took over a year for our daughter to be placed with us, but I am aware it can happen faster than that. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.







Linear Mode