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Old 12-28-1999, 08:29 AM
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WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN YOUR ADOPTION WORKER IS A DINGBAT

Here's one I haven't seen on here, yet...

I started the adoption process with the state over a year ago. It turned into a fight that I could write a book about, to say they were screwed up, is putting it nicely, there is a more perverse term, that describes the level that they are "screwed up" but I don't use that kind of language, but I think you have the point, by now...

Then I got a private agency, I chose this one in particular because it was a one-woman show and I wanted to be supportive of her attempts to place...

Well she has proven to be as screwed up as the state
You'd find it amusing and frustrating if I told you everything that has happened, but over concerns that the agency that I'm am adopting from reads this I'll refrain.

I've told her of some of her mistakes, and she appears to be apologetic, but will only partially correct her mishaps (partial, in that she says she will, but doesn't – I think that equal nill)

I've had to touch base with the workers, arrange the transfer of information... and the list goes on...

I want to fire her, but am too far into the process and have invested over $1000 into this (on a teacher's salary).

- Should I continue to navigate this
- I don't trust her to even know how to follow up even if we had a talk, so talking to her goes nowhere
- I don't trust her, not that she's evil, she's a nice person, she just worthless

What do you recommend?
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Old 12-28-1999, 12:21 PM
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Don't waste your time.

Originally Posted By yrand

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