[RIFamilies]

Hi! I am the publisher of a new magazine in RI called Rhode Island Families MAgazine. OUr May issue is focused on foster to adopt. We have info, stats etc. But what I would really like is to ad some real life flavor. Please tell me your experience with FOster to ADopt so that I might share it with my readers. Thanks so much. A
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Thanks Again!
Pam
PS Families in RI please feel free to contact me.

[mckenna]

do you only want foster to adopt stories from ri or could you use stories from other states too?

[RIFamilies]

I would like to have many stories from around the country. If I can connect with people in RI I thought is muight be noce to do a more in-depth interview though.
Thanks!

[manifest12]

Article is probably finished by now? Did you write at all about "Respite Care Providors"? (At least that's what they're called in WA state.)

For people who want to help but not be a foster parent, they can essentially do babysitting over weekends occassionally for other foster parents. I do it and it's a great experience--meeting new kids and brining out the goofy girl in myself with them. It's lovely to take my mind off my single / professional life and give to others on such a personal level. I'm helping both the kid and the parents--who each need a break from each other occassionaly.

The kids are usually on good behavior because there just with me to have fun, fun, fun--mostly one-on-one with no siblings etc. Everytime someone sais they have "problems", it cracks me up because they seem pretty gosh darn normal and well adjusted to me. I'm only exposed to them for two-three days anyway

I'm a single woman who dotes on them like an aunt. I'm paid $40 per day per child. I thought it would curb my social life but it really enhanced it--I now meet people in places I never would have visted before--swimming pools and batting cages etc. I only do it when I feel like it and I'm under no obligations.

I also get to "dip my foot in the water" before jumping in the pool of foster care as I plan to when ready.

This can be done with state agencies or private agencies and in WA state, required a 28 hr class series that was interesting and educational for me.

Families with kids can do this too--just include an age appropriate child in with your fun weekend and know how much you're helping another family. More single people can become foster parents if they have respite care to let them rest occassionally.