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Old 01-25-2012, 08:37 PM
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Talking Gladly joining the rank and file!

I've been following along with the posts of others for @ least 3 yrs...the ups & downs, the joys & ...well, after 3.5 yrs of licensed fost/adopt home, hoping to adopt, beloved foster son returning home after being w me for a year, a failed sibling adoption, a recently failed match, I was matched on Jan 3 to a beautiful 2.5 yr old girl of my prayers! My little bean will be moving in Feb 3! Bio mom has already surrendered & TPR is beginning on bio father. I am happy to say I will officially be apart of the single mommy club!
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Old 01-26-2012, 07:16 AM
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That's wonderful, Congratulations!!!
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Old 01-26-2012, 10:22 AM
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Welcome! Congrats chica! So you have until Feb. 3 to get in that last mani/pedi... read a book and sleeping til noon.

I'm soooo serious... get it in... NOW!
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Congrats and so true!!
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Wow! Congrats
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Great news. Congratulations!
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Old 01-30-2012, 06:34 PM
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Thank you everyone! TPR for bio father was completed today & my little bean is free & clear! Bean was with me this past weekend & I dropped her off @schol this morning. The transition is going very well, better than I expected.
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Tomorrow is the big day! What do you have planned for your first day as a family?? 2.5 is a great age!
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Old 02-03-2012, 01:57 AM
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I know! I'm like a kid on Christmas morning! Really don't have any extra special plans other than begin being a family when she walks through the door. I guess we'll go out for dinner & watch a movie, play with her toys!
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Congrats! I am hoping to be where you are soon enough! Nice to see another single girl from NJ on here!!

Let us know how your day went!!
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How were your first days together as a family
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Talking 1 week & a day

My little Bean has been with me a week! Overall it has been a good week of transition. When they brought her last Friday, the foster mom came to. Of course she cried when FM left & needed to be comforted. We spoke to the foster family this week & she became weepy afterwards. Not sure how much contact to provide bc she misses them but becomes sad or her sleep is disrupted. On a happier note she does call me mommy and really seems to enjoy our moments of affection, play, sharing meals, and wants me to be there for her. I really love being her mom! And we are good together! Very happy mom here!
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My little Bean has been with me a week! Overall it has been a good week of transition. When they brought her last Friday, the foster mom came to. Of course she cried when FM left & needed to be comforted. We spoke to the foster family this week & she became weepy afterwards. Not sure how much contact to provide bc she misses them but becomes sad or her sleep is disrupted. On a happier note she does call me mommy and really seems to enjoy our moments of affection, play, sharing meals, and wants me to be there for her. I really love being her mom! And we are good together! Very happy mom here!

Oh that is so awesome! Wishing you many, many more happy times...
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