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Old 05-12-2009, 12:13 PM
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No I Am Not Crazy

We're currently considering a sibling group of four. They are 15, 13, 11 and 4, with no real identified issues. I'm very close to my co-workers and I thought I'd share some of my excitement with them. Their response - the whole lot of them told me I was crazy.

Well... someone has to be.
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Old 05-13-2009, 05:32 AM
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I think you are only crazy if you don't follow the Spirit. Good luck!

I see you are being considered for several different kids. How did that come to pass? Are they local or photolistings from out of state?
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Old 05-13-2009, 05:51 AM
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Of course you are crazy! LOL! Gotta be just a little to have 4 kids at once, right?

Congratulations!
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Old 05-13-2009, 07:26 AM
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Jeannine - one is through our local agency, and the other three we applied for at our province's adoption day last month.

Crick - That's what I told them.
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Old 05-13-2009, 07:49 AM
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I just gotta say "Go for it!" I do not think you are crazy at all! I wish that was me. We just finished our homestudy yesterday and it went well. Hoping to be able to report something good like this in the future!
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Old 05-20-2009, 09:34 AM
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We had submitted our home study for two siblings groups, four siblings each. Ya, I get the "are you crazy?" line a lot. lol
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We are waiting for ICPC on our sib group of 4. We have 5 at home. We get the same question all the time. We always say Yes!
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Is there room in the asylum?

God knows how to send encouragement! My wife and I attended an adoption gathering with the thought of a group of two being our max. We met a beautiful group of three and are now hoping we will be considered a match. We already have 2 bio daughters. We are hearing the same talk about being crazy. I just tell people we are crazy about each other and our kids.
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I think you guys are great for wanting to take in these children. If it wasn't for us "crazy" people these children would not have loving homes. I have a sibling group of 4 which are now pre-adoptive so I understand. Splitting them up is not an option!
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