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Old 06-13-2007, 04:58 PM
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Possible two fathers

I received my non ID info. years ago, it wasn't until recently (after I got married two months ago) that I started my search again. What I found wasn't what my fantasy's created. I had two names and with some help from search angels, I had the name of a baby girl that was born on the day I was. I decided to look back at my non ID and see if I missed a clue. Well included w/ my info. was my medical record with my birth name scratched out with white out and a black sharpie. Holding it up to the light, something I learned from watching too much TV, I could make out a name. Jessica L. Huestis. The same last name of the man that the search angel gave me and the same name of the baby girl that the search angel gave me. I found them! I also found that he, James Earl Huestis, had died in 2004. I had his brothers name and his parents names. His parents had died so that left my birth uncle. I called him and talked for hours. We have sinced exchanged letters and photos. I received a picture of my birth father and held it in my hand for what seemed like forever. I opened it and was shocked to find out that he wasn't a look-a-lke for Sean Connery. I look nothing like this man, nothing. Now I am confused. My non ID says there could have been two possible father's, my birth uncle denies this, but now I'm not so sure. Non ID also said that my birth mom hoped I was the other mans child and if things didn't work out with her husband (james) she would go find him. I also got a copy of their marriage record which gave me her full name and DOB and her parents names. I still for the life of me can't find her and my search angels are stomped. Was there another man? Is she with him now? My birth uncle also told me that she did not tell james that she was giving me up until it was done, and she left him that same day and no one knows what happen to her. of course there is more to the story so if this is intriguing to anyone let me know....
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