[line9]

I thought I had found my birthmom a couple months ago based on some old info from a previous searcher. My contact letter was posted here: Please critique my contact letter

Anyways, it turns out it wasn't her (Although I kind of wish it was) but I've made a wonderful new friend.

I got frustrated after that as I've been looking for over 15 years and hired two different searchers. I decided to try one more based on recommendations in this forum (PM me if you would like the searchers contact info).

In less than a month she found my birthmom and three half siblings. Unfortunately, my birthmom died quite some time ago but two of the half siblings knew of me and welcomed contact.

I have exchanged a few emails with both. They shared details that explain so much. I still have many questions, but they have been extremely open.

I must say this has been a roller coaster ride emotionally. It's very bittersweet and I honestly don't think anybody who hasn't been there has a clue what it feels like.

Thanks to all who here who have been supportive.

Bottom line; Don't give up!

[kdecrow]

I remember your story! I'm so sorry you didn't get to meet your Bmom. My son was also deceased when I found him earlier this year.

BUT I am so excited! You have siblings!!!!

Congratulations and Merry Christmas!
Kim

[SuddenlySusan]

Dear Line9,

I'm so sorry that you found your mom to be deceased. But, how encouraging that you are now corresponding with your sibs.

As an nmom, I just wanted to express my thanks to you for continuing your search after so many years.

Best wishes,
Susan
(nmom in reunion)

[L@@king2]

oh so sorry to heart about your bmom - but you have been welcomed by your siblings!! Great journey, eh, line?? and the seracher says THANKS for recommending her...

I wish you the best on your continuing journey, line!

[Oceans]

WOW... Line9... Just read your story. Sheesh... This is like switched at birth in reverse! Incredible!!

I hope all is fabulous with you and your "new" family...Would love to hear an update.

[line9]

I regret to say there is nothing to update.

After a short flurry of emails, I haven't heard from either half-sibling.

In all honesty, I'm not sure I want to hear from them. The little bit of information and few photos I did receive satisfied my curiosity but peaked no interest in pursuing the matter further.

I think I'm better off not knowing anymore.

If nothing else, the process made me feel more fortunate for the friend I made (The woman whom I thought was my mother initially) and the family I have now.