[susiesgirl]

i found my birthfamily 6 years ago. I am having trouble with my sister. we are BOTH jealous of the other. I want to try to get along with her so we dont put bmom in the middle cuz i KNOW she will pick my sis' side.
it would be nice to be able to be friends. imissed out on a year of my nephews life because of this.
it is very hard cuz i wa raised an only child so sharing is hard for me.
bmom thinks that i blame my bfamily cuz they *done me wrong* that jusst isnt the truth. I feel so helpless i want to make everyone happy

[gr8fuladoptee]

sibling relationships can be tough especially if you didn't grow up having any other siblings. I think that would be so much more difficult. Anyway I'm thinking about contacting my bfamily and I worry about what my siblings and how they will react to me.

[kakuehl]

I can only tell you that my bson and my other two children seem to be doing well together. (It's funny to watch actually because D is the oldest of 3 in his afamily as well and automatically does the big brother thing with S & J.) D & J are very similar in personality which is also interesting.

Can you tell your sister, that you'd like to be friends? Have you admitted to her that you are jealous of her and why, but that you really want to have a relationship with her?