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Old 12-14-2006, 06:57 PM
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Heart ISRR Called!!!!!!!!

Oh. My. Gosh. I am in shock.

I surrendered my perfect newborn baby girl in August 1988, and had a very hard time with it. Was active in adoption forums, etc. for a while. Finally got through it, and had more children I raised in 1995, 1999.

When my daughter was 7 or so, I registered with ISRR. Heaven forbid something happened to me & she had no access to info. Earlier this year, before she turned 18, I updated my info.

There was a message on my answering machine today from a woman at ISRR. I simply will not make it through the night till I can call them back! )

Not sure what I'm looking for, exactly, but I received so much support so many years ago, I wouldn't mind being around those who understand again. I never *hid* the surrender, but most people in my life now, know nothing about it.

So, I sure hope ISRR only calls if there's a match???

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Old 12-14-2006, 07:23 PM
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Omg

Janet,
I saw your post and I am so excited for you!!! That is incredible. I can only imagine the feelings that you are sorting through, and I can expect that there is no sleep tonight for you, LOL.

Please keep us updated. My prayers and thoughts are with you, best of luck!!! Just remember, take a deep breath.
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Old 12-14-2006, 07:24 PM
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Janet!!!
What a wonderful Christmas present!!! I am also registered with ISRR and they told me they only call when they have a match....get ready!
I think the people in your life now will be thrilled for you, the attitudes towards us birthmothers has gotten so much kinder as opposed to "back in the day." Let me be the first to congratulate you!!
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Old 12-14-2006, 07:37 PM
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Talking Shock

Thank you, thank you both so much.

My husband knew me then, and he is saying "of course" it would be this soon (18 yrs 3 mos 21 days) because she's my dau, lol! Another friend who also knew me then is reminding me already not to trash the bdad.

Wow, ISRR really called.

Nope, not expecting much shut-eye tonight.



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Old 12-15-2006, 06:48 AM
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Heart Did you sleep last night Janet?

I bet you didn't get a wink!!! I hope you didn't have to work today....
Do tell as soon as you speak to ISRR! We are on pins and needles over here!!!
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Old 12-15-2006, 06:56 AM
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Every reply means so much to me!

I slept a little...

I am working from home today so have a bit of leeway {grin}. It's still two hours five minutes till 8am pacific... I will be sure to update.

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Old 12-15-2006, 07:39 AM
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We're here waiting with you!!!

How great you get to work at home today!!!!
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Old 12-15-2006, 09:21 AM
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To Janet:

I am thinking of you and praying for you. I figure you are on the phone now with ISRR.

God Bless and Good luck!

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And? And?

So excited for you here Janet!!!! There is a Santa!
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Old 12-15-2006, 09:41 AM
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Bless you, Santa

I finally got thru to ISRR. She registered on Monday.

I have her name, address, and phone. She is maybe 25 mins from me.

I hope to speak to her today.

OMG OMG OMG there just aren't the smilies to express.

A million thanks and blessings to you all.

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Old 12-15-2006, 10:58 AM
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Janet!!! OMG!!! OMG!!!

25 minu....I can't type. I'm crying.
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Old 12-15-2006, 12:28 PM
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Talking You're not the only one crying

I have spent hours googling her and whatnot. She is on xanga, and flickr, and was on myspace ... I now have seen tons of pictures of her. She is gorgeous, a real beauty. My face shape and my body shape, and dark features. (that part must be her bdad.) She lives in a terrific town and is attending an excellent school, and it is a very nice home judging from pictures & neighborhood.

She is still in HIGH SCHOOL! That part is rather intimidating. A senior. I wonder when she gets home from school...

I have prayed for her every day for more than 18 years. She certainly appears happy and healthy, so my prayers were answered.

I did not really expect her to look when she was 18. I was thinking mid-20's... 30's... I pray for good reunions for everyone here...

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Old 12-15-2006, 01:27 PM
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Janet,
How nervous and excited you must be! Maybe when things simmer down a bit you could post a picture of your beautiful daughter! I can't stay away long from this computer today. Your thread has gotten to me like no other.
God Bless and Congratulations Mom!
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Old 12-15-2006, 01:37 PM
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Uhhhh

Kim, even though I found the pics on the 'net I don't feel right posting it here. Check your email.
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I am so excited for you!! This is such wonderful news!!! WOO HOO!!!!

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