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Old 10-10-2006, 02:36 PM
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Question about contact with possible Birthmom

I have not been on here in a while life has been crazy hectic. I think I have found my birthmom who I have been emailing back and fourth with for a while on and off. When we first started emailing, she sent me a picture of her and her daughter. I however look nothing like them. Granted we would be from different fathers. In some ways it would be nice to know, but in other ways kinda scary. Unfortuinaly my possible birth mom blocked most of that time of her life so she doesnt have much information at all.
I have tried getting my birth records but I just get the runaround, she also tried and had not luck. Since that faild other than a DNA test are there any ways to figure it out? Unfortunatly she has no idea who the father it was just a fling with a truck driver who gave her a ride, so I doubt he even knew. So I seriously doubt there is a way to find him. Any ideas would be appreciated
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Old 10-10-2006, 07:27 PM
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Did you find her, or did she find you?
Did she know everything about your birth . . . hospital, date, etc?
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Old 10-11-2006, 06:49 PM
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I found her, but she posted up info because she was looking.
Was same day, same hospital. But for whatever reason she blocked out a lot of things from that time. She does not remember the Doctor, never saw me. I think she may have blocked alot of it becuase she got pregnant from a random truck driver when she was following the BeeJee's.
Maybe thats why I have always despised the Beejees.
I mean other than basic things theres nothing else I can think to do to figure out if she is my birthmom. Its intersting her current dughter looks so much like her. They are both really think, red thin hair. I have thick hair, I am not fat but I am no toothepic like they are. The only close thing is I had reddish hair as a child and my beard is reddish, but my hair color is more dirty blonde or brown. They both are red heads. As I keep searching there is no one else out there searching for a son on my birthday in that state at that hospital.
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Old 10-12-2006, 05:52 AM
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I sent you a private message on the cost of DNA testing. It actually isn't that expensive to do. Good Luck.
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