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Originally Posted By Sad Mom

there is a void in my life that will never be filled until that day comes when me and my daughter be reunited.

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Originally Posted By question

How do you go about finding the child you gave up?

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Originally Posted By Sharon

Dear Sad Mom, I wish you all the best in your search. I wish my Bmom felt the same way, an intermediary located her a couple of years ago, and for whatever reasons (I'll never understand) she didn't respond to me, I was told she was living with a daughter in Idaho
But for now I'll keep my faith & Hopes.

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Originally Posted By Meliss

Hi Sharon.

I'm a reunited birthmom. My birthdaughter is 19 now. I must tell you to be patient. You see, when we gave our babies up - many of us were told that we could NEVER see them again. Many of us set our minds to that thought because that's what we were told. Originally I had always said I would never search - but would be here for my daughter if she ever found me... your birthmom needs time. Don't think for a minute she has ever forgoten you. The problem is the guilt. I should know - I have tons of it. If I were you I'd make sure your Birthmom knew exactly where you live and how to get ahold of you anytime! That gives her time to think about it - deal with the guilt and then come to know you. There could be issues with your birthfather too. I told my birthdaughter after we met that I would help her find her birthfather if she wanted - but I'd have to do therapy first! :-) She has since found him and I am fine.
Just hang in there. Give your mom a chance to deal with what she did. Let her know that you will not show up on her doorstep - out of respect - and that she may feel free to contact you anytime!
I hope this helps you!
Good luck!
Meliss
Birthmom to Erica 12/26/81 face to face for the second time 8/28/00

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Originally Posted By Jennifer Meyers

I am an adopted child trying to find my birth mother. this is same kind of void in my life as well! I live in New westminister B.C. Canada.My adopted parents have been very supportive through out my whole life as to finding my biological parents, but have givin me very little information.So I am taking the initiative to do this search on my own. I can only ask you one question,What is it like to search for someone?
please reply to me at meyersjenn@hotmail.com
if you would like to talk about the trials and tribulations of looking for a loved one
thank-you
jen meyers.

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Originally Posted By Tanya Northcross

what state was she born in I was adopted and I was born in Indiana in April of 1965 but I know that you are not who I am looking for God bless you and keep the faith

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Originally Posted By Martha Culton

Go to the county seat where you put the child up for adoption. In the Register of Deeds Office, you may search for birth certificate for the year you child was born. Children pu up for adoption may have their original birth name in an index crossed out when the child is adopted. I was still able to read one that I am hoping that was mine back in 1947. Then go to the Clerk of Courts Office and check the court records of adoptions. If you have an idea when the baby was adopted you will see the birthparents's name on the decree. Sometimes the baby's birthname is on the court papers. Sometimes the adoption papers are still there in the county seat. What state were you in when you gave up your child for adoption? What was his/her birthdate? Good luck! Martha Culton culton@cconnect.net

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Originally Posted By Elizabeth Susan

I am an adoptee. I"ve just begun filing thru all the postings.. What are the odds? I guess they're greater the more I list a posting w/info.! I'm answering, nameless who entered her posting on my birthday...how happenstance! I was born in Newfane NY 4-3-65...taken from my mother @ maybe2-3 years old. I was adopted @ age 5 and lived in Clymer NY. Birthname is Elizabeth Susan.

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Originally Posted By BETTY ADAMS

I HAVE BEEN LOOKING FOR A GOOD WHILE NOW FOR MY BIRTH DAUGTHER. I DON'T HAVE A LOT TO GO ON. WHAT IS THE FIRST STEP I SHOULD MAKE IN FINDING HER. THIS IS ALL SO NEW TO ME. YOU OR ANY ONE WITH INFO CAN CONTACT ME @ HONEYBEARLDR@CS.COM. THANK YOU SO MUCH.

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Originally Posted By Chad

need to see my daghter,born 7-17-83,collin co,plano tx

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Originally Posted By Chad ( Kristen Danielle)

Birth name Kristen Danielle,Birth Mom said adopted given name changed to:Michelle Lynn,last name unknown to myself.b/mom Wendy A Sigley,Said father,put down as(Chad Daniel Phillips),Real name Chad Daniel Ennis.Born 7-17-83 Collins Co,Plano TX

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Originally Posted By angellover

when was your daughter and date of her birth and the year. where was the adoption. i have other non-indefication on this.
angellover@olynet.com

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Originally Posted By angellover

you can start by going to the state library in your state, that carry most of the papers at. basically in the state the adoption in.
angellover

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Originally Posted By judyemily

I know what you are saying. I feel the same exact way
that you do. How did you get past giving up your daughter. Please email me.

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Originally Posted By judyemily

I know what you are saying. I feel the same exact way
that you do. How did you get past giving up your daughter. Please email me.