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View Poll Results: Where are you in your Search and Reunion Quest?
No interest in searching 0 0%
Just starting out – Requested Non-ID 4 13.33%
Have the Non-ID – still searching 7 23.33%
No Non-ID available – still searching 0 0%
First Contact has been made – waiting 2 6.67%
First Contact has been made – rejected 1 3.33%
First Contact has been made – waiting for first meeting 2 6.67%
In full reunion – It’s not what I expected 5 16.67%
In full reunion – this is great! 7 23.33%
My adoption was open 2 6.67%
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Old 09-29-2005, 06:53 AM
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Old 10-01-2005, 04:58 PM
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Red face this is pretty neat

but what is bumping?
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Old 10-01-2005, 05:24 PM
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It will be interesting to see more votes!
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you should also have one..

First contact made- no response... thats what i fit into..
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First Contact has been made – waiting would be the right choice...because you are still "waiting"...since there has been no response, correct?
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Old 10-02-2005, 05:51 AM
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She knows where to find me...

I'll be here when she is ready.

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First Contact has been made – waiting would be the right choice...because you are still "waiting"...since there has been no response, correct?


Yepp Brandy.. but I know in my heart I'll never get the reply.. and that's ok too. at least I tried and wrote a heartfelt letter, thats all I could do.. Im content..
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humm....I wish there was an option....
no interest in searching, yet in full reunion, not what I expected......
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Old 10-02-2005, 02:14 PM
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Good idea Brandy. I'm always interested in where others stand in the search and reunion process.
I guess I fall into the "full reunion, not what I expected" category.
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28 votes but only 9 posts to "bump" this thread to the front! Here's the 10th "bump"!
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bumpity bumptiy bump....

I have a wonderful relationship with my cousin who as it turns out is also and adoptee..we get on famously..more like sisters than non biological cousins in my biological family! I'm lovin it!
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How about "Have ID-info, but unable to locate Birthmom due to only maiden name available"?

Looking like crazy....phoned her uncle (located thru a friend/neighbor of his), who may or may not pass on my message to her, that I'm her placed son's wife.

Crossing my fingers!
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Have non id...still searching
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