[lgonwolf]

My father is very ill and all I keep thinking is how can I find my son so my Dad can at least know I found him or maybe even meet him if possible. My Dads' time is just a matter of time due to diabetes and all complications associated. Of course on the other hand I don't want to disturb his life in anyway. I am so torn up from the floor up.

[Lynn226]

Just wanted to chime in to say I read your post. I wish you well. Unforunately, I don't have any concrete advice to offer.

Judging from the posts that I've seen here, searches can be long and tedious. If you feel that your dad's time is short and it's important to him to know his birth grandson, then perhaps he can help you with some kind of scrapbook or video. If the time comes and your father is unable to participate in a reunion, then you will have it to present to your birth son.

Just thought I would try to give you an idea to work on until you complete your search.