[graylingadoptee1972]

I just found out that although I was born in Michigan, my adoption was finalized in NEw York City. I had a feeling this was the case, as that is where my (adoptive) parents had been living before finding me and it's where I essentially grew up... Anyway, I have been making phone calls.. and I found a potential diamond in the rough - a woman who actually wanted to try and get me pointed in the right direction because she herself could not help me.. She told me about the Adoption Information Registry for New York and gave me this info:
(518)474-9600 (Albany)
New York State Department of Health

Adoption Information Registry
P.O. Box 2607
Albany, NY
12220-2602

I am calling today; i just got this info yesterday!!

Peace everyone!!

[graylingadoptee1972]

Originally Posted by PrInCeSsInNY23

Hello. Does anyone know the policy for opening adoption records and other laws for the state of New York? Please let me know any information you may have. Thank you! Jen

Jen ,
Since the records are sealed most likely, it's a little harder. I was adopted in NY but born in Michigan so it's even harder!! There is, however, a state registry run out of Albany that you can register with and they will contact you if there is a match... I thought i had the link for it, but apparently i don't..i am pretty sure i got it from the New York State government webpage, or maybe the DHS webpage... if i find it, i will send it to you!
Another thing to do is petition the court in which the adoption was finalized to open the records. IT's worth a try. That is what I am going to do next inmy search. I am in correspondance with a Diane Jenkins at the New York City Court... maybe she could help you? If not, i am sure she would send you in the right direction. Her e-mail is: DIJENKIN@courts.state.ny.us. Again, she isin NYC, so if it's another city in NY she probably cannot help/...
just some ideas...
good luck!!

[missing75time]

Originally Posted by PrInCeSsInNY23

Hello. Does anyone know the policy for opening adoption records and other laws for the state of New York? Please let me know any information you may have. Thank you! Jen

The state law covering mutual consent registry and release of non-identifying birth information is New York Public Health Law Section 4138-c. New York State's public website on the matter Adoption Information Registry - New York State Department of Health

The law(s) that covers petitioning the court to unseal the records I do not presently know.

[missing75time]

Originally Posted by PrInCeSsInNY23

Hello. Does anyone know the policy for opening adoption records and other laws for the state of New York? Please let me know any information you may have. Thank you! Jen

The laws affecting adoption in New York State appear to be listed under Domestic Relations (Chapter 14), Article 7. Link here Laws of New York

Specifically look under Article 7, Title 2, § 114. It appears that "good cause for disclosure" may be established on medical grounds.

Disclaimer - I am not a lawyer and can not provide legal advice in this matter.

[graylingadoptee1972]

hi : )
I was also searching for infor since i was adopted in NYC, from the Family Court... but my search has been on hold for personal reasons.
However, if you know the county or city court in which you adoption was finalized, you can directly petition that court, but they are not really bound to release everything, as all records in NY are sealed. i know, frustrating, right?
However (again!) you can call the Family/Adoption/Probate Court in that city where you were adopted and talk to someone who can probably help you. I was in touch with a woman from the New York City Courts, since I know that my adoption was finalized in that court. All i have to do now, to see if she can get some information for me is fax some info to her directly. Hopefully there is someone as nice as her that you can get in contact with. If you need me to find her name/e-mail, I can.. i am just pressed for time right now. Sorry!!
Good luck!!!

[Steven_A87]

This may be a stupid question, but I'm very new to this (about 3 hours in...) If you were born in New York, but your adoptive parents were from Pennsylvania, where would the adoption be finalized? I have almost no information at this point...

[richland91]

Yes, I have recent experience. I was unsuccessful. NY law is extremely rigid in this regard. Essentially you might be successful if a physician testifies that it is a medical emergency. I had an attorney petition the court. It was over a year since they could find my records (1954) and then 3 months to get what looked like a law clerk's standard letter of NO. I would have been better off send my money to one of the organizations in NY trying to get the law changed. Sorry to give you a dismal picture. Make sure you are on the adoption registry and pray for something.

[hunny0404]

As I'm reading this thread I'm getting angrier. When I relinquished in 1979, I asked for the file to be sealed on my side but open on the adoptive side. I wanted my son's aparents to feel secure that I wouldn't someday try to find him (I didn't; he found me) but I wanted my son to be able to find me if he ever felt the need. I asked for this arrangement and was promised it. I feel completely betrayed that my own attorney didn't tell me this was impossible in the state of NY. My son spent many frustrating and painful years searching, while I thought he didn't want to find me because I didn't know he COULDN'T. When I was found, the third party who located me said he'd been wanting to find me for such a long time, but the record had been sealed on his side. At the time (2 1/2 years ago) I thought this must have been an administrative mistake. I had no idea it was the law. I thought I was well-represented at the time. I was so very ignorant and foolish to trust. It feels like just one more failure on my part; I didn't raise my son and I didn't protect his rights in his adoption.

The relinquishment/adoption process is so full of lies....

[thangley]

Originally Posted by PrInCeSsInNY23

Hello. Does anyone know the policy for opening adoption records and other laws for the state of New York? Please let me know any information you may have. Thank you! Jen

Dear Jen--New York is tough. I believe you have to have a medical emergency, and even then it is only generic information that is given. I am searching for a son that was given up for adoption through the Suffolk County Dept. of Social Services, and they claim the records are sealed forever. This baby was given up 40 years ago. Let me know if you have any luck. Pat

[Drywall]

You can contact Robert Hafetz. He is a member of the PA Find group. He has been very vocal in the state of NY and NJ in terms of open record support. Best of luck.

[Drywall]

Princess...its easy to understand your frustration.

All courts are different in what they will allow to unseal records. Some courts are very strict, others will take under advisement a serious illness. Some, even in the face of terminal disease will not unseal the records.

Some states have a form that is required, others require that the petitioner write directly to the judge.

The best place to get information in terms of court petitioning requirements, is the clerk of the court where the adoption was finalized. They will have the court records.

Many questions can be answered by the clerk, or some administrative assistant of the court.

Generally, in some form prior to a court appearance, most courts will require that you indicate what action you want the court to take.

A second part, are the reasons or evidence you have to support your request for unsealing the records.

You do not need an attorney to gain information from the clerk of the court.

If you feel that you do want to go to court to petition the unsealing of the records, I would suggest you take an attorney.

Many attorneys offer a 1st consultation without charge to see if there is enough information to go to court. This may help to save the expense of going to court.

I wish you he best.