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Old 10-29-2004, 06:48 AM
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Exclamation Important Please Read (Caution Not for children to read)

CAUTION: This is very shocking.. and contains some ugly words!!!!!
Something that I felt that all parents of older children should know about... I hope I don't get in trouble for posting this... Please all of you that read this if you know anyone that has teenage children print this and pass it on, or Please copy and paste this and e-mail it to everyone in your address book...
We as parents need to do everything possible to educate ourselves as to what is going on in our childrens day to day lives...

Found this and although it might differ on region this is an example and yes they are the rubbery little bands. (gosh i hope i don't get banned for putting this on here)
The color code for sex bracelets seems to vary according to location; purple may mean anal sex in one city and holding hands in another. We've listed some of the most common meanings for sex bracelet colors, submitted from sources across the U.S. Possible alternate meanings are listed in parentheses.
If you have doubts about what a color means, ask someone who's wearing sex bracelets in your local area.
The one thing that everyone seems to agree upon is that the
color black sexual intercourse

Black: sexual intercourse
Blue: blow job (alternate meaning: lap dance)
Green: cunnilingus (alternate meaning: outdoor sex, hug)
Clear: whatever you want (alternate meaning: hug)
Orange: kiss
Yellow: hug (alternate meaning: analingus)
Red: lap dance (alternate meaning: French kiss, oral sex)
Purple: anal sex (alternate meaning: holding hands, doggy style)
Silver: fisting
White: flash your tits (alternate meaning: gay kiss, French kiss)
Pink: flashing
Gold glitter: make out
Brown: toss my salad, i.e., analingus
Glow in the dark: using sex toys, e.g. vibrators, dildos, etc.

I hope that I have not offended any of you by posting this... I just felt very compleled to get this information out to parents...
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Old 10-29-2004, 06:53 AM
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I just recently saw this on a tv show.. .. maybe Law and ORder or CSI? a boy raped a girl because she had been wearing one of the bracelets and he took it to mean that she would "put out" with anyone.... very scary!!
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Check out the Urban Legends posting on this:

http://www.snopes.com/risque/school/bracelet.asp


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It's out there!

I've seen this in our area and the really sad thing is that grade school children think they are cool and want them too. They have no idea what it means but just see the older kids wearing them makes them want one too. Egads!

I can only hope parents who see these on their kids sit down and talk with them and educate them.

Along with these bracelets is the rising of "sex parties". Kids get together at an unsupervised home and have these parties. Where are the parents?????? It's just unacceptable.

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Old 10-29-2004, 10:56 AM
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I know it is terrible... It discuss me sometime as to what out children are subjected to these days....
I can only pray that this will help someone out there that does not know about it...
So I will continue to bum this up for the next week....

So any help will be appreciated....
God will bless you!!!!!
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they are banned from the jr. highs in our town.
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Oh my gosh...

My six year old first grader wears these bracelets 24 hours a day! I know she has no idea what the "meaning" of them are. I don't understand who thinks of these things. In jr. high I was still playing Barbie's with my little sister!
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I am so glad that this is helping all of you out....

I still want to encourage all of you that are looking at this to copy and paste it to a new e-mail and send it around to everyone in your addess book so that we can get the word out there....
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OMG...thank you so much for your informative post. I am shocked to say the least and not only that I am the mother of a 12 year old daughter who wears these bracelets daily changing the color to match her outfit. I know she is simply following the current fashion trend, she is also still playing with Barbie dolls; but to think she could be placed in harms way just because she is wearing a bracelet is outrageous.
I try and be so careful, she isn't even allowed to watch MTV or listen to suggestive lyrics, she's still in ponytails and braces. I am horrified and I am sending it to everybody. Tara
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Well I don't have a daughter... I have boys, and to tell you the truth we live in a small town of less than 20,000 people... And I didn't think that it was going on here at our school... But I went ahead and approached my boys about it.. I didn't even get it out of my mouth and my 10 year olds says you mean sex bracelets.. OH MY GOSH!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I could not believe my ears...
And to think a lady on the group that I got this info from, came on there to voice her opinon, that she thought that we were extremely over reacting and that we needed to quit spreading internet rumors.... That all of this came from the show Judging Amy... I didn't see that episode... But I talk to someone else and they said yes there was an episode with that thream... I think a girl got raped because she was wearing them, with out knowing the meaning of them...
Anyway I don't believe that it is internet rumors, when I know that it is going on at our middle school right here in my own back yard... And if it is going on here, I know it is going on it bigger schools...
So lets get the WORD out there to all the parents that we know, because almost all of us know someone that has a child that is of school age....
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Had to Bump this back up... So that those that didn't get to see it over the weekend, could see it...

It is very true that it is going on...
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Thanks for the informative post! My 11 yr old just started Middle School. I just asked him about them. All he knows is that they are sex bracelets. If someone rips it off the girls arm....then he wants to have sex with her. He does not know about colors or meanings.

Unbelievable!
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I saw a thing on TV, Judging Amy, I had no idea kids were really usning them. Sad. Thanks for the heads up.
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Bumping this back up again....
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Bumping this up for others to read again...
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