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Old 08-18-2009, 07:14 AM
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Heart One Year Ago Today...Forever a Family

Hello old friends!! The past year has kept me quite busy as a stay-at-home mom to our two very active toddlers. It has been pure joy. There have been some issues with our son being overly emotional and nervous, but all in all, I couldn't ask for a better family, or a better life. Here is a short story I just wrote, along with a picture of us one year ago today and one from two weeks ago (we haven't taken our today's pic yet).

Once upon a time, God designed a plan to bring together four people who really wanted a family. He sent the mommy & the daddy halfway across the world three times, all the while holding them and their two babies in His gentle embrace. Finally on ...August 18, 2008, when His timing was just right, He smiled lovingly upon them as they hugged one another tight & walked out of that rural Siberian orphanage forever a family. This is my family, and this is our story.

On our custody date, Aug. 18th, our daughter was 11 mos. old and our son was 21 mos. old.

Today, they are 23 mos. old and 2 years 9 mos. They make me nutty sometimes, but my heart would cease to beat without them.
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Old 08-18-2009, 07:57 AM
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Congrats on your big day! They are beautiful! I can't believe you've been home a year, it seems like yesterday you were traveling!
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Old 08-18-2009, 08:10 AM
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Wow - a year already! The whole family looks so happy and beautiful. Congrats on your one year family day!
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Old 08-18-2009, 08:28 AM
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Happy 1st Anniversary!!! Beautiful family...check in once in a while and keep us up to date...and post more pictures of your cuties!!
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AW........congrats, Jess!!! You are such a wonderful Mom and those children are thriving becasue of it! How lucky you all are to be together!
I have tears for you today, making it past that one year mark is really something signifigant!
HUGS to you all !!! We love you!!!!
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Old 08-18-2009, 09:53 AM
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Congratulations! Beautiful family!
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no way?!?!? a year already??? that's crazy!!

congratulations on this very special anniversary. i LOVE your beach picture - it's just beautiful!
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Old 08-18-2009, 10:35 AM
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Just beautiful ! Congratulations!
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Old 08-18-2009, 02:11 PM
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A whole year...already?!! It seems like just last week that I was following your journey and anxiously awaiting news that you had your kiddos! Congratulations!
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Wow! They are beautiful! I can't believe it has been a year!
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Really cute kiddos!

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Happy Happy Anniversary Jessi! Cannot believe how fast the year has flown! You all look so happy too!
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Old 08-19-2009, 05:39 AM
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You are a beautiful family. Congratulations to all of you!
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Old 08-19-2009, 06:13 AM
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Thank you SOOOOOOOOOOOOO very much, everyone!! I've missed you all so much. It amazes me how my computer time now is fleeting and something as addicting as this site, and my friends here could have so easily taken a backseat. I guess two wild fun-loving toddlers do that to you. I blink and it's 4pm. It's really crazy!!

I can't believe a year has passed either. Time sure flies. Although it's been a year already, in many ways, most days, I truly cannot even believe that it's only been a year. They seem like they have been with us since birth. Did I really not carry these children in my womb? Because I believe in my heart that I did. I guess that's because in my heart is where they lived all along.

Hope all of your families are doing well, and I will try during this second year as a family to stop by more often than the handful of times I did in the last 12 mos.

And yes, I will try to post more pictures soon!!!

xoxoxoxoxo

PERDUE ~ I'm so excited to see you've taken trip 1. You were just beginning when we came home. Lots of love to your growing family.
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May - October, 2007 - Researching adoption/agencies
October 17 - Application to adopt FedEx'd to our agency
February 5 - Dossiers registered in Kras
April 23 - Best day ever! Received referral for our little boy
May 15 - Received our referral for our little girl! Yippee!!
May 20-25 - TRIP 1
July 29th Court Date Rescheduled - orphanage quarantine - chix pox
August 5, 2008 - New Court Date
August 6 - Adoptions Approved
August 14 - Depart JFK Trip 3
August 18 - Custody!! Pick up Babies (11 & 21 mos old)
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Old 08-19-2009, 06:49 AM
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Amazing how much your children resemble you and your husband.....it really can make one believe a higher power set this up

We celebrated our 8th year home with Katerina and 1st year home with Svetlana recently by traveling to Florida.

Try not to be such a stranger.....these newbies need your guidance

Congrats on year one of forever
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