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Old 10-03-2006, 05:19 PM
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Tears, laughter and a bump on the head... part two

We make it to Moscow, get a quick nap in the airport hotel and get on board Armpit Air. Much to my suprise it's a new plane, roomy seats and yummy food. Life is good.

We get to the hotel and they tell us they'll be back to get us at 2pm to go to the baby house to see our boy... YAY!! It's a long three hour drive done in 2 hours and 15 minutes by our suicidal driver, but we arrive intact. They bring Jack in and he's pitiful. I don't know this now, but they've given him a load of vaccines and that's why he looks so bad. Where is my beautiful, smiling baby? We only get about 45 minutes with him, then we have to leave. Follow up another wild ride with Mr. Toad.

Court day.... I'm so happy, my fancy new travel hair dryer blows things out nicely, so no big hair. My clothes are ironed and I only need one pair of stockings (I brought two pair because of my propensity for sticking my fingers through them at critical times).

We got to the courthouse and down the stairs to this dark little room with granite slab floors... sort of like a dungeon. There's a prisoner cage to our left, a jury box to the right with the judges bench in the front. My husband is pale and slightly sweaty. He's terrified that somehow he'll mess things up and say something wrong. I try to tell him things will be fine when the door opens....Now we're off, the judge walks in and takes a seat. The interpreter is busy in my right ear, DH looking wan on my left. Twenty minutes later it's over and the ten days are waived. No questions of me except about child care. We barely have time to understand that it's over and we head off to start working on his new passport and birth certificates.

We finally get back to our hotel room and realize that IT'S OVER!! We're FINALLY parents!! Oh my GOD... they've just made me his mother!! And can we get something to eat, for the love of Pete?

The next day we pile into the van for the final ride to the baby house. This is the last time we'll be alone as a couple... Hey do these seats fold down? We get there and there he sits... dressed in the little summer shorts outfit we brought in July with a pink winter jacket over the top. Stylish, no? He's got his little bag of things... his lovey, his camera, his picture book. And I realize that all his worldy possessions are things that we gave him. He looks better today, more like himself. He smiles when he sees us.

We get him dressed and have a quick tour of the orphanage, we see no other children, except one little girl walking down the hall. We recognize her as the little one who's family is coming next week for court. Hang on, precious, your family is coming!!

Back in the van, he falls asleep almost instantly on my chest. That's it... I'm absolutely, totally in love. I listen to the sound of his breathing for three hours and smell the top of his head.... is there anything better in the world? I think not.

Before we know it, we're back in the hotel. DH and I stare at each other dumbly and realize that we just might need to feed this child!! Let the experimentation begin!!
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11/05 First trip/entire adoption cancelled d/t agency problems
03/06 Signed with our new agency
06/28/06 Trip one July 7th-12th!!
7/10/06 Met our precious boy
9/14/06 Got the call!! Court 9/21!! OMG!!
9/21/06 We are a family
05/21/08 On the way to #2!!
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Old 10-03-2006, 05:36 PM
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I am LOVIN' this story! More, more!!!
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12/05 Began Russian Adoption Process
04/06 Homestudy complete
05/06 Dossier submitted to Moscow
07/06 #4 on list for boy/girl under 18 mo.
08/06 Changed to Domestic
08/31/06 Matched!! Baby due Feb. 15
09/26/06 Withdrew from situation
09/27/06 Back to original Russian plan
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Old 10-03-2006, 05:41 PM
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Keep it coming!!!!!! All your comments bring back memories of our gotcha day 2 years ago last week
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Old 10-03-2006, 06:38 PM
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too awesome...im looking forward to reading more!
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03/10/05 First home study meeting
03/14/05 Sent I-600
04/05/06 Fingerprints Appoinment
04/22/05 Home Visit - 3 PM
04/29/05 Home Study Aproval
05/26/05 Fingerprints 1 pm.
06/27/05 Sent for DH and DD Passport
07/12/05 Received I171-H
07/29/05 Received Passports
12/31/25 Switch Agency & Country
02/28/06 1st Trip to Estonia
05/03/06 Received Paperwork for Court to be notarized & apostilled. Sent back!!
07/29/06 Fingerprinted again
10/23/06 New I171H
12/20/2006 -- The news we have been waiting for ...WE GOT COURT for January 23, 2007!!
08/07/2007 - Went to Estonia to spend time with our son
08/12/2007 Dossier sent to Estonia
Welcome Home Ruslan Ethan 01/10/2008
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Old 10-04-2006, 06:43 AM
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bumping to keep at the top...
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Old 10-04-2006, 10:25 AM
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You are such a talented writer!!

Okay, so the tears came pouring out when you talked of his worldy possessions!

Now I'm on to part 3
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Feb 05 to Aug 06 unsuccessful in Russia
August 06, changing countries (paperchasing)
Oct 06 dossier sent to agency
Nov 06 dossier made it through the Embassy, now
it's on its way to Kaz!!
Dec 06 dossier at the first Ministry (MFA)
Jan 06 dossier now at second Ministry (MOE)
One more to go.....that's the regional one
Still hoping for LOI (letter of invitation) in Jan
Jan 31---dossier still at MOE, no LOI in Jan
Feb 16--We know our region--Karaganda Kaz.
Last step in the process--wait for LOI
March 15 07--received LOI
Left for Kaz March 21
Paperwork glitch but decided to stay while it was handled (hence the long time between leaving for trip and court)
Court May22, 2007
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