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Old 08-13-2005, 09:52 PM
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Do they tell you if you are never getting a court date?

Just wondering if they, Russia or the agency tells you if you are not going to ever get a court date. Does anyone know? Has anyone been told this?
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Old 08-13-2005, 09:57 PM
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Hey neighbor! It will happen! Hang in there a little longer! I can not even imagine how hard this long wait is between trips, but you will get your son! We have been involved with Russian adoption 2+ years, and I have never heard of anyone that got denied a court date after a successful first trip.

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Old 08-13-2005, 10:50 PM
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I hear your frustrations. You are in my prayers! It will happen soon!
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Old 08-14-2005, 05:02 AM
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Mamita........you will get a court date.


Remember, your region is slow!

Remember, they're all on vacation!

Remember, everyone brings their babies home eventually!
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Old 08-14-2005, 05:31 AM
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If I remember (if wrong, please someone correct me), I think August and December are months that Russia "shuts-down."

A former co-worker adopted from St. Pete in 2003. Her first trip was in July but heard nothing until September about her second trip which was a few weeks later in late Sept - early Oct.

Hang in there, I know you've come a long way.
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Old 08-14-2005, 06:51 AM
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I hear you....I am right there with you! We got back from trip #1 5/27 - lots of extra paperwork, a cancelled court date in July (due to a missing release letter on their end), a judge's 5 week vacation, and we are now looking at no news until after Labor Day (when her vacation ends). Aaaahhh! Hoping my 8 sig medical form , done in July does not expire before we go back!

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Old 08-14-2005, 07:09 AM
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Hang in there, My DD is in the same boat. This is so frusturating.
I just want to screammmmm.
However you will get your court date... LISA
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I ask this question all of the time. I have yet to receive an answer from my agency. All they tell me is that they think it will happen. Sometimes I wish my case manager and my agency were more positive, which would make me think more positively.

The fact that all of the other families in the same region I am adopting from have brought their babies home and I have been waiting much longer tells me that something is not right; however, the agency just keeps telling me that we have a difficult judge who asks for documents that are made up along the way.

Sometimes I feel like giving up and then there are days when I have to believe it is going to happen, just not in my time frame. I just hope I will not have to wait another year.
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We were told by an indy facilitator that she once had to submit paperwork to three different judges (they each can keep your paperwork for 30 days before making a decision or making on decision) before one gave a court date.

I don't think it happens that you won't be given a court date (if everything is in order), but I think it (rarely) happens that you may be told "no" IN court.
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Deep breathe....hold it...exhale. Slow region thing, you'll be fine. The little guy will be home soon and your life will never be the same. It's coming Dixie. I never thought mine would either. Remember how you said you would follow me through? I made it...you will too. I think you'll hear soon.
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Old 08-15-2005, 04:03 PM
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Thanks Theresa! I do remember I said I would follow you through and be right behind you.... I feel like the last racer in a marathn.. the one that crosses the finish line after the camera crews have left... finishing but with a bit less gusto... but finishhing :-)
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Hang on there girl...just keep going...you can do it...you can do it!
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our first trip was mid May, and we have no news because our agency is still not reaccredited yet. They did say that things have slowed down in the past 2 months, but that they will be picking up again soon.

If you have your release letter, then there is no reason they would not give you a court date, and if the Judge needed more documents, they would most likely tell you.

So hang on....i am on this ride with you...the scariest ride i have ever taken........as soon as we step off, it will be worth every minute :-)

For now we must be patient, and know that this will happen at the right time
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