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Old 05-10-2005, 06:42 AM
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Waiting how long?

Hi All,

Can we start a thread with how long everyone has been waiting and what child you are waiting for? Let's define the start of waiting as when you turned in your completed dossier. OK?

I'll start...

Waiting since November 2004 for a GIRL less than 18 months.

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4/18/04 - Started Looking for an Agency
6/1/04 - Contacted Bless This Child, Inc.
6/7/04 - Accepted into Agency
10/18/04 - Completed Home Study
11/08/04 - Dossier in Russia!!!
12/08/04 - Received I-171H (FINALLY!!!!)
1/25/05 - GOT THE CALL!!!!
3/8/05 - Turned down first referral based on possible genetic defects, back to waiting...UGH!

We live in Northern VA, near DC. If you want to have dinner to talk about "the process", please let me know.
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Old 05-10-2005, 06:49 AM
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Waiting since November 2004 for referrals on one or two girls aged 3 - 8.
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Old 05-10-2005, 07:03 AM
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Waiting since August 2004 for a boy or girl under age two, as young as possible.
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Kim, mom to Charles Lane (Charlie), came home
at age 13 months, from Astrakhan, Russia.
B. June 2004; GOTCHA DAY August 1, 2005;
Home in Missouri at last on August 6, 2005.
Began adoption process in November 2003.

Pure and lasting religion in the sight of God our Father means that we must care for orphans and widows in their troubles, and refuse to let the world corrupt us. - James 1:27

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Old 05-10-2005, 07:45 AM
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Turned in dossier this week! 5/09/05

Waiting for a girl, under 2

Let's see how long it takes! (I don't know what to expect-judging from posts on this board, wait times are all over the place!)

Melanie
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Old 05-10-2005, 07:47 AM
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Submitted Dossier to agency Feb 21, 2005
Dossier in region March 11, 2005
Waiting for sibs under four, no specific genders.
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2/10/200 Recieved I-171-H (finally)
02/21/2005 SUBMITTED Dossier to agency!!!
03/11/2005 Dossier sent to Kemerovo
Recieved Referrals June3rd sibling boys under three...
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Old 05-10-2005, 07:52 AM
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Submitted part 1 dossier, my agency does things a little different on 5/3. Got a call on 5/6 that they had a referral of a 10 month old baby girl. Just getting medicals checked out, so far so good. Might make trip 1 the end of May. She comes of the registry on 5/22 and I can travel any time after 5/24.
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Old 05-10-2005, 07:56 AM
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5/2

Submitted dossier 5/2/2005. I'm told to expect a referral of a 1.5-3 year old girl around the end of May and travel in June or July!
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Welcome Katie!
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Old 05-10-2005, 07:57 AM
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Dossier submitted August 2004. Waiting for a child of either sex between the age of 1-3; correctable disability OK.
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Old 05-10-2005, 08:34 AM
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Dossier submitted August 2004.

STILL! waiting for a referral of two children--boy and girl, infant and toddler, young as possible and up to age 2 1/2-3 years.
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May 26 2004 Applied to agency
May 26 Gathering all dossier documents
August 2 BCIS Fingerprinting done--waiting for 171h
August 18 I171h arrives
August 24 Dossier apostilled, dossier fed ex-ed to agency!
June 27 2005 GOT A (blind) REFERRAL!! Girl baby, boy toddler!
July 16 OFF TO RUSSIA!
July 22 ACCEPTED REFERRALS!! Hoping to go back early August!
August 1st GOTCHA DAY!
August 5th Home with our 2 children!
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Old 05-10-2005, 08:57 AM
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Unhappy Our wait time has to be setting a record

Submitted dossier in February 2003. Waiting for a girl under 15 months.
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Old 05-10-2005, 09:02 AM
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Hello,

Been waiting since 10/2004. Waiting for a boy under 18 months, as young as possible. Correctable disability okay.

Nichole
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06/29/04 FIRST HS VISIT
07/06/04 SECOND HS VISIT
07/14/04 THIRD AND FINAL HOMESTUDY
09/20/04 RECIEVED I-171
10/11/04 DOSSIER HAND CARRIED TO RUSSIA 11/17/04 OFFICALLY WAITING!
11/18/04 DOSSIER REGISTERED IN IZHEVSK
04/18/05 WAS TOLD NOW REGISTERED IN CHUVASHIA
06/10/05 GOT THE CALL-TRAVELLING BLIND TO VOLGOGRAD
06/25/05 - 07/01/05 TRIP#1
06/30/05 SIGNED TO ADOPT OUR PERFECT LITTLE BOY
10/23/05-11/15/05 TRIP 2 COURT ON 10/28
11/08/05 GOTCHA
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Old 05-10-2005, 09:30 AM
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bam125....

That makes NO SENSE whatsoever!? Waiting 2 years is unheard of, unless there are extenuating circumstances, but is certainly isnt the norm.
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May 26 2004 Applied to agency
May 26 Gathering all dossier documents
August 2 BCIS Fingerprinting done--waiting for 171h
August 18 I171h arrives
August 24 Dossier apostilled, dossier fed ex-ed to agency!
June 27 2005 GOT A (blind) REFERRAL!! Girl baby, boy toddler!
July 16 OFF TO RUSSIA!
July 22 ACCEPTED REFERRALS!! Hoping to go back early August!
August 1st GOTCHA DAY!
August 5th Home with our 2 children!
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Old 05-10-2005, 09:33 AM
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We have been waiting since Feb 17,2005. We are hoping to bring home a baby girl, as young as possible or under 18 months.
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9/15/2008 Starting PW... again,this time we are bringing home TWO.
12/5/2008 Home study complete and approved for 2
5/8/2009 Officially waiting on referral for a boy & girl-8-24 months





9/1/04 started PW
2/17/05-4/5/06 waited 412 days for...
4/6/06 Referral of little girl...then
4/17-21/06 Trip one...awesome...then
5/7-14/06 Trip 2...even better
5/14/06 HOME
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Old 05-10-2005, 09:57 AM
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We submitted dossier in Sept. '04, and just received an infant male referral. It was, and still is, very hard
to read about other families getting their referrals much more quickly. But our referral is really healthy, so i can't begrudge the system too much.

Keep holding on waiters! Hopefully, it will mean you get to travel quickly.
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Old 05-10-2005, 11:22 AM
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Angry I feel like an idiot

To KDK
I have actually considered changing agencies but know that we will be looking at another long wait. My agency claims that we were within the 9-12 month normal wait period (for a healthy girl under 15 months) until the December shutdown.

It is so hard to read about other people's quick referrals and I try to stay off the boards as a result. However, I am always afraid that I might miss something.
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12/08/05 Received referral for 10 month baby girl in Dianjiang, Chongqing
3/3/06 Arrived in NYC with our daughter!
1/19/07 LID!
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