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Old 04-19-2004, 02:14 PM
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Our update...

OK, news but a bit disappointing. Our wait to travel is epected to be 3-6 months. UGH!! We will be travelling blindly, so no referral to keep us placated. I was expecting 2-3 months, which is quite a bit different of course. Although this news is unpleasant, our agency is wonderful and very supportive. I would much rather know up front then be waiting daily for the phone...like last time.

Hearing about all of your beautiful kids coming home these days is very helpful!!!!

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Old 04-19-2004, 02:48 PM
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Hang in there! That just means you have alittle more time to get ready that's all! Also it means that your child isn't ready to leave Russia yet either! It will happen...you just have to believe and you will achieve!

sorry for the "setback". We are all here rooting for everyone...including you!

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Old 04-19-2004, 03:07 PM
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Sorry to hear that, O'Malley

It is so difficult being patient, huh? I should know, I have the patience of a fruitfly. I guess maybe the Man upstairs thinks you need more one on one time with Jordan. She'll have to share soon enough. Hang in there, we're rooting for ya!
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Old 04-19-2004, 03:13 PM
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Sorry to hear your wait will be longer than you expected - I hope they are being conservative! I agree it's better to know up front.
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Old 04-19-2004, 04:09 PM
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Keep the Faith

Sorry for the delay. Guess there is a plan in place. Keep the Faith.
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Old 04-19-2004, 04:16 PM
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It's not easy

The waiting can be trying, but it sounds like you have the right frame of mind.

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Old 04-19-2004, 04:50 PM
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They did say THREE-6 months. Doesn't mean it will be 6 months. Could be 3. God will let you know when everything is in place. Until then, stay busy, it makes the time pass more quickly.
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Old 04-19-2004, 06:24 PM
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You have such a great attitude about the wait. I'm sure having a supportive agency helps. But just think about the great reward you will have in the end...well worth waiting for!

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Sorry to hear about your delay. I will be thinking of you and wishing your time to fly by.

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Old 04-20-2004, 06:56 AM
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Hi There,

Sorry to hear your wait will be longer than expected. I'll cross my fingers that it will be 3 months instead of 6!

Hang in there.

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Old 04-20-2004, 07:32 AM
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Like I always say (although lately I've been choking on it) if time is the only thing between you and your goal, you're okay, because time always passes, whether you want it to or not.

As for not having a referral, sometimes I think it might be better that way. I guess the grass is always greener!

Spend lots of time with the family you have already, and it will happen when the time is right.

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Sorry to hear about your wait. Hang in there the wait is always the hardest part. I know our son was meant to be ours, when the child God is giving you is ready to go home, you will get the call. Hang in there.


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Old 04-20-2004, 09:57 AM
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After going through this process (still going through) I know that everything is as it should be. And in God's time (the perfect time), you will have the desire of your heart.
Hope you know we all know where your coming from.
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Sorry to hear about the longer timeframe...but remember that you will get your child when the time is right! Easier said than done.....

Hopefully you will be on the 3 month end.
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Just to give you a little bit of hope...

We are also traveling blind. Our agency told us 4-6 months for a referral, and we got our travel dates one month after our paperwork was sent to Russia. I'm not saying this is the norm or anything, but I did want to let you know it could happen!

I wish you a speedy referral!

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