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In our eleven year Relationship, I have always felt that I didn't know my boyfriend, (now Fiancee). He knew nothing Biological about himself, until last year, so naturally I didn't know anything about him either. I used to think to myself, "I don't know this person," But I have always loved him just the same.

I helped a great deal within his Research for his biological family and was just as excited as he, during the entire search. I must admit though, a sense of relief came across myself, when we were learning about his Biological self and finding his family. I then felt like I knew who he really was and therefore our relationship became much stronger and much closer.

Having a Relationship with an Adoptee, "Has anyone who's not adopted, felt that the partner in your relationship, who was adopted," that you didn't really know them?" Has anyone else felt this way in their relationship with an Adoptee?"