[gr8fuladoptee]

A friend of mine who placed her baby for adoption has decided she wants to take the baby back. She's feeling guilty about wanting the baby but has found resources she needs to parent. That's the good news.
Pray for the family that was going to adopt this baby. I know this has to be a difficult time for them too.

[longingtomeetyou]

praying for all parties involved

[angellabernett]

oh gosh, i can understand the guilt she is feeling, and when i read this i thought of a diffrent solution that maybe you can tell your friend so shse wont feel this way!
how about considering open adoption/commumnication to be able to see the child and watch the child grow but also let the adoptive parents continue being what she gave them the oppurtunity to be , parents, maybe they would be acceptable of this, and another thing would be to remember the reason why she placed the child in the first place. i am also a birthmom of course who gave a child up and i went through the same feelings too, i only wish though since i had not been able to keep her that i had had an open line of communication but i didnt at that time cuz i was in too much greif.....still am unfortunately and now shes 18,,, sometimes things cannot be reversed but there are reasons for that also. i will pray that the best thngs for all involved will come into being, as the good lord said ask and so you shall receive......give your friend a huge hug and yourself for being supportive for her i had no one

[gr8fuladoptee]

Thank you for praying!! She was going to have an open adoption if she placed but decided against it. Her family isn't very supportive and she's staying with me for a few days.


Sorry you didn't have anyone to support you, Angela. what an awful feeling to go through something like this alone. (((hugs)))

[taramayrn]

My thoughts and prayers are with everyone involved.

[kakuehl]

My prayers are with all as well.