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Old 04-16-2009, 11:35 AM
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Hey guys, has anyone done a private adoption? Does anyone know any good lawyers in PA that do private adoptions?

Our situation is....

We adopted our little girl in Sept. 08 and then we got a call a few weeks ago from bmom that she is pregnant again. She wants us to adopt this little one and we want to! We are moving her out here to PA from TX next month and she will be staying with my sister! I will be taking her to her appointments, etc. My husband, daughters and myself are very excited and so is bmom! We are hoping that we can get bmom on track this time before she goes back to TX.

Does anyone know anything about social security disability? She is on disability in TX and I know that she will keep that even moving to PA but how does the medical part work? Will she keep TX or will she need to get medical in PA? I've tried calling social security but can't get a hold of a person!!! Any help anyone can provide would greatly be appreciated. (I'm also posting in PA)
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Feb. 29, 08 - Met w/agency
Mar. 29, 08 - Signed contract w/agency & hs
May 16, 08 - Matched
May 30, 08 - HS done
Sept. 16, 08 - Baby girl born
Oct. 24, 08 - Finalized..she is all ours :
March 09 - Phone call from birthmom...pregnant again
April 30, 09 - Picked birthmom up at airport
May 2, 09 - Heard & saw baby (ultrasound)
May 25, 09 - Found out birthmom was smoking crack & pot while up here! Was smoking crack the whole time during pregnancy, was stealing from stores, trying to hook out of my sisters house...wouldn't keep her blood sugar under control, etc. so we had to give her a choice...go to drug rehab or go home! She decided to go home because she wasn't ready to get off of the drugs! She was planning on taking us for everything we had (her words) if it were to be a boy!(we would of found out on 5/28) My heart is still breaking!
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