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Old 11-30-2004, 07:41 PM
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Lorraine, I'm just amazed that so much was withheld from you about your daughter's history. How can they expect you to effectively care for and advocate for a child when you don't know her history? I am impressed that you're holding it together despite all.

In the past few days I've talked to a couple of agencies, and both have told us not to count on getting a SWAN placement for a child under 8 years old, especially a girl, unless we go into the foster program. Then, of course, we would have to accept legal risk placements that might be reunited with their birth parents or placed with other relatives.

We're not giving up on SWAN, but it's very discouraging. We are looking very seriously at international options.
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Old 11-30-2004, 08:46 PM
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Best Wishes to you Alison

Best Wishes to you Alison in your adoption journey! If you want a younger child and have the finances go international! I would love to but can't due to financial reasons! I been with SWAn for 2 years now, and finally had a interview last week for a child, now it's just waiting and seeing! Would be a nice xmas present!
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thanks lorraine

Lorraine, thanks for the specific tips about what to look for in disclosures and what to ask. This kind of information is so valuable to us in the hoping to be matched stage!

Peace, Mal
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Old 12-01-2004, 07:53 AM
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Keeping fingers crossed for you, bostonbeagle

bostonbeagle, I wish you all the best with the child you interviewed for! It would be wonderful to have a placement by Christmas, especially after you've been through such a long wait. Please keep us posted!
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Old 12-01-2004, 08:44 AM
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BostonBeagle -

Good luck to you. The waiting is the hardest part. Tell us more about the child you interviewed for.
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Old 12-01-2004, 03:46 PM
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Thanks to everyone contributing to this thread...I happen to be the "DH" (I hope... ) to Alison...and greatly appreciate the information!
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Old 12-04-2004, 07:17 PM
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Hi Thanks everyone! It has been a long wait! We finally got news yesterday, that they are sending us a picture of the child! Im kind of excited! Well we will have to wait and see what happens!
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Well got the picture today, she is adorable, but
i got a behavior report! She has some issues, have to wait and see what happens!

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Any news, Boston?
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Hi Alison, haven't heard anything lately! i getting pretty disgusted again, but going till after the holiday to see what happens!
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Old 12-22-2004, 06:41 AM
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Keep the faith, 'beagle...
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Old 12-22-2004, 08:13 AM
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Keeping my fingers crossed for you, Boston! Maybe things will pick up speed again after the holidays.

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We have been matched!

We have been matched, thank god , after all of this waiting for 2 years!
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Old 01-03-2005, 03:36 PM
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Congratulations, Boston! Can't wait to hear the details.


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