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Old 04-04-2008, 11:18 AM
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Saddest news I've ever heard! Mom tries to flush newborn down the toilet!

BAYTOWN, Texas - A 14-year-old girl gave birth in a restroom at her junior high, and the baby boy cried once before she tried to flush him down the toilet, killing him, officials said Thursday.

An autopsy confirmed the baby was alive when born Wednesday at Cedar Bayou Junior High in Baytown, near Houston. The boy was probably full term and cried before the mother, an eighth-grader, tried to flush him, said police Lt. Eric Freed.

The mother was taken to a hospital. People who knew her at school said she wore baggy clothing, and nobody suspected she was pregnant, The Houston Chronicle reported Thursday.

School officials learned of her pregnancy when another student who was in the restroom while the eighth-grader was in labor went to ask the school nurse for help, said Kathy Clausen, spokeswoman for Baytown's Goose Creek school district.

The nurse and an assistant principal ran to the bathroom, discovered the girl had given birth and called 911.

Authorities have not announced what charges the girl will face, if any. Killing an infant is a capital crime in Texas, but 14-year-olds are too young to be eligible for the death penalty, said Geoffrey Corn, an assistant professor at South Texas College of Law.

The infant died just three days after another 14-year-old girl delivered a stillborn fetus in the bathroom of an airplane on her way back to Houston from a middle-school field trip.

Baytown is about 25 miles east of Houston.
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Old 04-06-2008, 06:22 PM
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WOW! You have got to be kidding me! Her mom didnt even suspect it? How could she not notice for 9 MONTHS!!!!
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Old 04-06-2008, 06:38 PM
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My cousin's 13 year old daughter was 7 1/2-8 months pregnant when she told her family she was pregnant. She told them just before her aunt was to be married. Yep, the morning of the wedding. No one had a clue! She had her 14th birthday a few weeks before having he son.

It is horrific what has happened to this baby. But is sad that girls feel that they can't trust their family, counselors or anyone to support them. This happens more often than is publized. We had it happen at our college about a year or two ago. The mother was 19. So much pressure had been put upon her to excell, to be a good girl, to be the success in the family. She was scared to disappoint her family. Sometimes our encouragement and pride in our children puts pressure on them that we don't realize.
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Old 04-06-2008, 10:54 PM
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That is so true, sometimes parents dont think about the effect they have on their kids.
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Old 04-06-2008, 11:28 PM
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So very sad from every perspective. Did anyone see the Oprah from a while back regarding a similar case? The girl had the baby in the bathroom one night just before dinner. She ended up putting the baby in a duffle bag and her boyfriend threw the bag into a quarry. It wasn't clear whether the baby was stillborn or not. My hands are starting to feel numb just writing about it and I keep mistyping. The baby was eventually found and there was a funeral. Smallest immaginable coffin . . .
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This is so horrible.
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What a terrible tragedy for all, so sad!
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That's horrific. So sad.
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