[KSAB]

Well a week ago my step-daughter told us she is 2 months pregant.
She has decided to keep the baby. Yesterday when I
was talking to her she told me that she didn't need a
kid.
She is 19 and her mom kick her out when she was 17
we tried to get her to move in with us but she wants
to be on her own and she does not like to follow the
rules. So for the last year she has been staying with
her boyfriend at his parents house and they have kick
both of them out. I would love for her to come home
with us, but she wants her boyfriend to come to and
I do not want that I have a 5 yr son and I really do
not want him to think it is ok.
Nither one of them have a job she is 19 and he is 17
both of them quit school and no GED and nither one of them have a vehicle.
I have gotten her on Medicaid but I do not know what
else I can do.
She wants us to give her truck back. We can not do that when she had the truck she had 2 accident in it.
and did not care about the truck. The accidents she
had were hitting trees while out partying.
I really do not know what to do our say anymore. I am
worrying myself sick about it.
I want to help her but she does not want to help
herself. All she cares about is being with her boyfriend
and partying, she has an excuse for not getting a job.
What else can I do.

[MamaTo6]

Wow sorry to hear ur having such a hard time with ur step dtr. I know exactly what ur going thru, only it was my own 16 yr old dtr and her drug dealing bf. There isnt much u can do at this point unfortunately except continue to love and offer ur home to her as long as she respects ur rules. I had to wait til my grd dtr was born and wait til my dtr started to make some mistakes that were a danger to her child. I was then forced to involce the childrens services. My grd dtr was placed with me for the next 2 yrs while my dtr matured and realised that her dtr was more important than her bf or the partying. Now my dtr and grd dtr are doing great and living on their own. Truthfully as hard as I prayed that day would come, I never thought it would. I truly hope ur step dtr comes around and that ur outcome is as joyous as mine.

Warm wishes....Teagans Mama