[nancynic]

Hi,

I'd like to brainstorm a list of ways we can get/give support to oneanother ... so here's what I have in mind:

let's use this forum to introduce ourselves and post one (or a couple of ways we gain/give support) ... brainstorming is a great way to get new ideas and share what works for you.

I'll start us off ...

taking with friends about what is difficult is really helpful in gaining and giving support ... it makes us realize we are not alone and keeps us going ...

NancyNic

[sweetnoodle]

I'm Nancy, and I agree, we all need support.

I like brainstorming, I also like debating (as long as it remains CIVIL!). I get a lot out of debating, but only online as debating verbally is much more difficult for me then writing.

I also like specific topics with ensuing ideas offered as solutions.

However, it seems the most effective support on these forums has been someone encouraging me or others receiving that message that says, "I know exactly how you feel" and relaying their point of view about someone else's particular situation.

Sincerely,

[nancynic]

Hi Nancy,

It really helps to hear that you are understood and empathized with! Somehow, knowing that a person cares and understands works magic. It is also helpful to have specific information when it is available.

Thanks for your comments!

(the other) Nancy