[xemtrockstarx]

Trust me, as a bi-racial adoptee with two caucasian parents who has had no contact (closed adoption) with her birthmother, I have had no problems with feeling unwanted or abandoned.

Not all adopted kids mind not knowing. I was recently contacted by my birthmother and had not really thought about it until then. I consider myself a productive member of society and am a very well adjusted adult.

It isn't that birth parents aren't important, it's just that sometimes people are content - your daughter may be one of them