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Originally Posted By michelle

I found out I was pregnant, and decided I would keep it. I am now 3 months along, and having second thoughts. My boyfriend and I have talked about the possibility of adoption, but we're both really torn. We're both only 20, and not ready (emotionally or financially) to raise a child. Any advice?

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Originally Posted By Lynn

Have you both talked to your parents or someone you respect? This is a very difficult decision and I can only tell you that you need good/reliable outside help.

I don't know if I can help you but if you feel the need to talk... my e-mail address is: Scottop@aol

Good luck

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Dear Michelle, have you talked to anyone in whom you can rely on?? Sometimes it can help to talk about your situation just to think things through more clearly.I am so happy that abortion wasn't an option for you. It just upsets me that so many girls think abortion before adoption, especailly when we ourselves have been trying so hard to adopt after trying so hard to have our own again....My name is Deborah and if it will help JUST TO TALK then please feel free to e-mail me chancenjax@aol.com or justme0204@aol.com

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Originally Posted By birthmom Jamie

seek professional pregnancy counceling it is a must.been there, done that,.Also make sure that they or ANYONE does not pressure you into making any dessions.It should be totaly up to you they should guide you & show you your options.