[Iyamlady415]

Anyway you spell It it wont go through in an e mail If you notice I did Try to spell it several diffrent ways after spelling it D I C K E N S Almost like someone or something doesnt want us to connect. HMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM

[margie]

hi, thanks .i feel bad that my name wont go through i am not sure why but maybe i forgot to let you no that the hole name is lower.margaret ****ens @ hot mail .com all one word all lower...i will try your aol e-mail...and also thanks for help from all it means alot to no people read thease.....good luck in all you search's if you would like to give any of your info i have been on ton's of sights maybe somthing may ring a bell in others searching in the 60's for an adoptee. as well as i have thought i have come close but we never got far enough, but have had the pleasure to meet alot of great people who i hoped were the ones.never get your hopes up but most of all never give up! for me and those who are searching it can be a bit of an emotional nightmare looking for what seems like a needle in a hay stack.it seems as 1,000 people have the same story,or that info is so much alike.we did register with ny state but have yet to hear a thing,the worst thought is that the female adoptee does not even no the she is adopted and if no one ever tells her we will never find her.i want to thank you for the pictures but i think it may be more helpfull if you could send a reg every day pic those glamor shots can look alot different then the person in real life most pic i have to compair to them are every day pic's so if you could please scan one down of a home pic..but again there is alot of features that could be a possible.thanks margie

[Iyamlady415]

OK well, I just recieved you post and shared it with my friend.

She is going to look for a Everyday Photo she says she is not sure if she even has any as she is always on the other end of the camera these days Taking pictures of her own children.

She also wanted me to share with you these Facts she was told as she was growing up. Her Adoptive parents NEVER wanted her to find out that she was adopted. This sturck me odd as you claimed in Your post that your sister may not even know she was adopted. My freind only found out by mistake in a heated argument. You see her Adoptive parents Had ALWAYS lied to her when she would ask them even from a very young age. She would always seem to ask them If she was Adopted and they would ALWAYS answer " No you weren't adopted but let me tell you this Adopted children are very special because they were wanted an not had" These words always stayed with her. It was not until she was in her 20's when she and her parents were in a heated argument that she actually found out that she really WAS Adopted. Since then she has looked on and off for her family. Mostly because she wants to know the medical backround she has as she could never answer her medical questions growing up and when her parents filled out the forms all the answers were lies. She would like to know that information for the sake of her own 4 kids. She has stressed to me that while Having a REAL family out there somewhere Is important , Having the medical information is much more inportant to her should they choose to NOT want to have anything to do with her. She IS NOT wanting to pry into someone else's life and ruin anyones Present or future.

Do you know If your family members are alergic to anything Inparticular , anything unusual? Is there any thing you know Medically that you think could possible link the two of you or any of your family members? Suck as Herat problems Lung problems arthritis, does anyone wear glasses? Birth marks in strange places, Do you family members tend to get gray hair early on? These are all just hypethetical subjects Im just trying to give you Ideas.

She was 5'11 and now she says after 4 kids she stands about 5'9 as for her hair color you have seen it and she claims It also depends on the lable of the bottle , and her moods anymore these days.

She is a very convicted person when she feels strong enough about a matter she will fight for it to the death. Meaning IF she believes in a cause watch out! I believe she should have been an attorney Because she could have put a lot of bad people behind bars for a long time, However she said " Nope cant do that because IF I knew they were guilty I could NOT defend them" She is very creative loves to write. She has an increadible passion for good old fashioned Values and romance .
However it seems to be a thing of the past anymore and she Is waking up to the rude reality that the world is NOT a very nice place when you are a single mom with 4 small children. She is a hard worker and a Great MOM But when she looks at her children she always wonders " Who do they really look like?"
WOW I have written a novel here so Let me look for the pic and post it so you can take a better look. Maybe some of these things I have mentioned will turn on a light or something, Maybe not . Never know unless you ask.

Take care and God Bless

[Iyamlady415]

Well, She asked me to post a picture of her children here for you to take a look at. Maybe they might look like someone in your family then again Maybe they wont You never know unless you look right?

Take Care and God Bless

[ksb51]

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