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Old 03-21-2008, 08:52 AM
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BSon 3.21.86 22 today..

Today my son turns 22. And I sit here still, every year on his birthday, hoping..that he is looking. In August of last year I got contacted thru this website. A young man saying all the right things. And most important that he thought he was my son. After communicating back and forth here, I told him that we need a DNA test. I do not want to take another womans child, I need to be 100% positive.
I was worried because all the information he gave me came from basically all the posts I have made here in the past years on his birthday. There was nothing new at all. Needless to say, I said DNA test, and he never contatcted me again.
I went from pure joy to total melt down. All I can assume is that he was not my son. So, for the day that my real son comes looking, I am here thinking of you, crying, and just praying that happy, healthy, and living a good life. We love you so much. Your father, sister and I. And our entire family. Maybe this time next year, you will find me. I will never give up hope. You were born in Albuquerque, but the AParents lived in Manhattan. Happy birthday my angel boy. Please..please.. find us.
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Old 05-15-2008, 09:54 PM
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Hi there. I am not sure how New Mexico works yet as far as laws. I am from WI, and have found many people. I would love to start searching in New Mexico. I have not scoped out anything yet. I would love to help you. If you go to my page, you will see that I have been doing this for a long time, and love it. I read your story, and feel deeply that someone could be so cold to do this to you. Surely if he was your son, he would have wanted to know as well.
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