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Multiple kids- looks in public
We have 4 foster kids all 5 and under - ages 5,4, 3 & almost 2 to be exact. When we go out in public, you should see the looks we get. Either they stare or people walk up to us and say " My ! You have your hands full!" I used to find it amusing, now it's annoying. Why does anyone care how many kids I have? Sometimes I think people would stare less if I walk down the street with an elephant! Does anyone else with 3+ kids get this reaction?
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Kel Welcome to the circus! DH- my 4 kiddos The Enforcer age 6 Adopted November 16, 2007 The Jester- age 5 - Adopted November 16, 2007 The Informer- age 4-identified surrender December 7th 2007 The Terminator - age 3-identified surrender December 7th 2007 our always annoyed Corgi , an escapee bird and various fish, fauna and amphibians and a homeless chicken and a rescued runaway Blue Heeler. |
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Now that the boys are older we don't get too many looks. But when they were younger and we had a third we'd get tons of looks. Now the age difference is big enough that people don't stare too much: almost 7, 6,and almost 3. I do get tons of questions whether the older two are twins or not though. And I think in our case the stares may come from racial differences more than size of family,.
-Leena
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I also got the "stares" from people when they see me out with my gang. It is rare for me to go anywhere with just 1 child. We have 5! Ages are 8, 5 1/2, 4, 4 and 8 months. So you can imagine. It does get better as they get older .. but people are inquisitive.
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ADOPTED (all placements through fost/adopt - all placed w/ us as infants from hospital): Joshua - 9 years old (adopted 27 months of age) Erich - 6 years old (adopted at 15 months of age) Kaelynn - 5 years old (adopted at age 3) Hannah - 4 1/2 years old (adopted at age 1) FOSTERING, NOW LEGALLY FREE FOR ADOPTION!: Our little angel girl has arrived, Baby N, born Sept '06, now 20 months old (She just became legally free 5-16 and we are in the process of moving forward with her adoption!) |
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