[ladyzee]

Hello
For those of you who know me, it has been a pleaser sharing with you my stories. But unfortunately enough I have one last story to share with you. My world as I know it has ended, my son is no longer mines to call my own. I receive the bad news today. The judge made the decision on Friday and I call the casework and she told me on the phone. After ten long months and words cannot express what I feel. My heart is broken and what upset me the must is that they are placing him back with his birthmother who has none of the five other children that she had and after 25months of being in the so call system. Still living in a shelter they are removing him from the only home he has ever known and the only mother he has ever known. I fear for him I don’t want him to end up on the news, I want what is best for him. A child with special needs shouldn’t be move from a stable home into a shelter. I may not have carry him for nine months but I have carry him in my heart long before she ever did. I LOVE HIM AND ALWAYS WILL. TIL WE MEET AGAIN. G.B.A Jr. aka Nene

[leenab]

So sorry to hear DYFS is still screwing around with children's lives. We're also loosing our little T, most likely today to her biograndma who gave her back to the system 3 months ago.

There is no real accountability in the system.

It's so obvious now as they put your little boy in a shelter with his bios. But then DYFS never cares about quality of life, just about blood relationships. They just don't want the best for the children. If they wanted the best things wouldn't drag on so long and children wouldn't be moved from good environments to less than desirable ones.

T was our first fost/adopt that we've ever lost. And it is sooo hard. I found out last wednesday when I asked for permission to take her out of state for a funeral because my grandfather was about to die. In the same conversation I'm told she'll go to her biograndma's for the time we're out of state and probably won't come back to live with us. Talk about being sooo untactful and wrong timing.

Our hearts are so broken that I can't even imagine riding this broken down fost/adopt nightmarish train again.

Hang in there. PM me if you like