[startobebarbie]

I was born on Christmas, 1984. I was adopted when I was six days old. I was told that I was adopted since I could understand. My parents never hid anything from me. My parents didn't really know anything about my birth parents, so in reality, neither did I. I grew up just knowing that they were somewhere out there.

When I was 18, I registered on adoption.com in the registry and the forums, and started posting, and never got a reply. I didn't give up, I just had to be patient.

On January 27, 2005 I got a voicemail on my cell phone from a guy saying he found my name in the registry on adoption.com, and if I didn't mind, he would like for me to call him back. So I did, and we talked, and the tears started running down my face. He told me he was looking for his daughter born on Chritmas, 84 in Brandon, FL. As of then, it all started coming together.

During that week we talked on the phone a few more times, and finally I got in touch with my attorney that did the adoption case. It took him about a week to run the names and get all the information together, but finally I got the phone call. It checked out that he is my birthfather.

I'M SO EXCITED! lol, words can't even explain how I feel. We will be meeting sometime this week, so I'll keep you updated.

-Jessica

thank you adoption.com!

[Amaris27]

CONGRATS! How exciting for you and for your bdad! I hope your reunion goes well and you both continue on this journey. Please keep us updated.
Amaris

[banjo]

Hi there,

I'm so pleased you have had success finding your bfather. It's fantastic that he found you! Does he know where you bmother is?

[startobebarbie]

Yes, he did contact my birthmother, and she will also be at the meeting. It is scheduled this friday night, so i can't wait!

[l-thompson]

Startobebarbie ~ Congratulations on making contact with your birthdad...isn't it exciting
Great news too that he is able to assist with making contact with your birthmother ~ double congratulations!! I wish you all the very best with your face to face meeting on Friday....how many times have you gone through your wardrobe wondering what to wear
Please let us know how it all goes ~ its so nice to know your birthmom and birthdad want to meet you and spend time with you....reunion is a wonderful thing for sure.

[startobebarbie]

i already bought a new outfit, and i'm getting my hair done that morning. i told my hairdresser what was happening and she was like ' i am gonna make you look soooo good ' so i can't wait. i just hope the week flies by!

[tricia3]

Originally Posted by startobebarbie

i already bought a new outfit, and i'm getting my hair done that morning. i told my hairdresser what was happening and she was like ' i am gonna make you look soooo good ' so i can't wait. i just hope the week flies by!

You could show up in curlers and your pj's and they'd be just as happy.

Seriously though....I'm happy for anyone that gets to experience this wonderful time in their life. It's like nothing you'll ever feel again and I hope it's everything you've dreamed of.
Let us know how it goes.

[l-thompson]

I hope the week goes quickly for you too - I know its easier said than done...but try hard not to think too deeply.....just enjoy the anticipation and the moment...its like no other

[FL_GirlByProxy]

Jessica! How tremendous!! I can hear the excitement in your voice! I'm a birthmom who just met my birthson and his parents and grandmother this past December. There is nothing like reunion! You are all in my prayers, I am praying that all goes well! Fantastic!!

[Emily358]

I'm so happy for you! I remember vividly the night I met my bdad, and just like you, I had a new outfit and told my hairdresser, who freaked out with happiness for me.

I hope you have a wonderful time, and don't forget to take the time to journal soon afterwards. That way you'll always have even the memories of small details to cherish.

[Katya7685]

These postings are so helpful for me! Thanks to all. I'm a bmom who met her bdaughter just about a month and a half ago. (We each had tears, but not a lot.) We've talked on the phone a few times and send emails occasionally. We both started searching many years ago, but on different registries. Her bfather doesn't know yet that she's interested in contact. We live in different parts of the country now and haven't seen each other for over 20 years. I've made contact with his mother who promises to pass along my letter to him privately, but it's been slow going. I've been reading the messages about meeting bdad with GREAT interest. Can't wait to hear how it turns out.

[startobebarbie]

ok, well a little update the day before we meet...

my bmom has decided it is too soon. i'm sure she is going through a lot right now, and needs time, which is fine. i told my bfather to give her my contact information, and when she is ready she'll call, no rush.

i'm still happy though! it just gives me a chance to get another surprise in the future!!! well, tomorrow is the big day. i promise to have a great time, and of course take pictures.

thank you EVERYONE for your support.

love,
jessica

[FL_GirlByProxy]

Jessica, you have the best attitude about your birthmom. When she meets you, the time will be right for both of you. Maybe you can begin email communication and ease into it. You are a wonderful, patient woman. I am praying that you have the best day tomorrow. You sound so excited!! Have fun, I'm praying for you both!!

[l-thompson]

Hiya Jessica - I hope you sleep well, bet the butterflies will be fluttering

I agree with Proxy - your outlook is just wonderful...what a great way of looking at it.. as in another surprise for another day!! The absolute best thing to do in reunion is to allow everyone the time to reach a point where they are feeling comfortable with contact - I am sure your birthmom will really appreciate your understanding and this will only serve you well when the time arrives for you to have contact.

Have the most awesome day tomorrow...will be waiting to hear how your meeting goes.
Linz

[Lis6191]

Jessica, congratulations! You seem to have the right attitude about bmom... give her time and all the space she needs to sort thru her emotions. My only advice is take is slow. Proxy and Linz both gave you valuable advice! I am meeting my bmom tomorrow, actually 2nd time, as we are "starting over" so-to-speak, & I am actually leaning towards the pjs and curlers (Tricia, you crack me up) hee, hee

I'll be thinking of you tomorrow and I'll be online when I get back home. We want to hear all about it

Look forward to chatting some more.