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Originally Posted By Emilie

I just found my bmom on Tuesday the day after my 20th birthday. It was an emotional event but now a few days later it is almost like it is no big deal- I know her we talk she is nice. I do not know if this is normal. I ahve always been very open about my adoption. So I do not know. My real mom is having a really hard time- she thinks that i will want my bmom to be my real mom and all. I do not know what to do for her but reassure her. We are very close- best friends. She knows this- but still feels threatened. Any suggestions. I told her to join a group or talk to other moms that did the same thing. I do not know where else to take it all from here. any help would be appreciated