[ps.iloveyou]

I was born in Harvey, IL on July 1st, 1990 at Ingalls Hospital. I know that her name was Michelle M. Graff, but I don't know if she got married since then. That's all I know so far. Any help is appreciated!

[ps.iloveyou]

I FOUND HER!
I'm really excited. I don't know what I want to do now though.

[Brdmc3]

Congrats on finding your mother.

[cetalley]

P.S., I am so thrilled, but you need to make sure this is your firstmom, positively NO DOUBTS. Then you must remember to SLOW down. For , I have read that once you locate, you must go very very slow. When one thinks they are going slow...slow it down even more. How were you able to find her so quickly, if I may ask, and were your aparents of any help? I am very happy for you! What is your plan of contact and i also wanted to know how old you are...if you do not mind me asking... Never mind on the age is see in your post you were born 1990....Best of luck, make sure you have a plan and expect NOTHING ,except what you expect, you will be fine. I am a firstmom and can hardly wait to find my twin sons,22 yrs. old now, this is why I offer you this advice. Reunion is competely overwhelming from all that I read. GOOD LUCK!!!!

[overtherainbow103]

how did u find her?

[ps.iloveyou]

I'm not sure, some kind of pop up ad came up & it was a search engine for adoption & I typed in her maiden name. Then her maiden name & her new name came up & I realized that I knew her. I used to see her when I was little. She has two younger daughters & they live in texas. I'm going to visit them next thursday. I'm not really sure I'm ready for all this. I think part of me liked the mystery of not knowing where I came from. As soon as I step off that plane everything will be different. Good luck to everyone. Thank you for being here.