[tjbailey469]

well after 41 yrs of wandering i have gotten the urge to really find my bparents. the problem is i dont know were to start. i was born in oklahoma city ok on 02/27/67 at st. anthoney hospital i was adopted through cc i think. my parents arnt very out right with the info. i have read that i need to get my non identify info what is this and were do i get it. any help would be greatly appreciated.

[cetalley]

Hello, I wish you much luck and patience. I am a first mom (bmom) and have been searching for my twin sons, who are now 22 yrs.old. I might suggest you start with the agency by writing them and asking for non-I.d. INFO. Go from there, also check with search&reunion forum on this page. There is a wealth of info. Do not give up, your firstmom may very well be looking for you too. Good luck, and remember we are all here to lend an ear and support where we can....

[tjbailey469]

I Want To Say Thanks For The Support. I Have Been Reading Through All Of What People Have To Say Here And I Didnt Know Just How Many People Felt The Same Way I Do. Its Mind Boggling How May People Are Searching Now I Wonder If I Will Ever Find Any Answers Or Truth. Im Really Concerned

[coynrosey]

Hi - I too was adopted through Catholic Charities. Call and ask their policy on obtaining non-identifying info. I did, and i received it in a letter. You can also request info / paperwork to submit to the state for voluntary reunion. They will attempt to match your info to bmom info if she submitted too. I hope it works out for you.
Cindy

[lisa138]

HI, I WAS ADOPTED IN OKLA CITY AND BORN AT ST ANTHONY'S IN 1968. I LIVED WITH MY B PARENTS FOR 1 YR,THEN WAS ADOPTED THROUGH THE DHS.
ANYWAY ,YOU CAN WRITE OR CALL THEM AND THEY WILL GIVE YOU THE YEAR THEY WERE BORN AND IF YOU GET ON THEIR REGISTRY AFTER 6 MTHS THEY WILL FIND 1 SIBLING FREE.
I DID THIS AND THEY TOLD ME I HAD A HALF BROTHER,BUT NOW I'M LOOKING FOR B MOM AND DAD THAT LIVED IN OKLA,CITY.I WISH YOU ALL THE LUCK IN THE WORLD.