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Old 09-14-2009, 04:19 AM
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I agree with Magic Hat, an open and honest conversation isn't going to make her want to take the baby back. IMO waiting just because of finalization is manipulative, because it seems as if you are afraid to be honest until she has no recourse to react.


I have to agree with brown eyes. It would feel like a betrayal if you suddenly changed everything after finalization. Remember you are building a relationship that will last a lifetime. Starting it off honestly is important.
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